Say you dated a guy for about a year and things were great and you were about to move in with him, and you guys talked about marriage and having kids, etc. Like two-three months before you guys were suppose to get an apartment you started feeling like this is the guy you'll be with forever and while that is what you want you start to realize you won't ever be single again....that you've jumped from one relationship to another all your life, you just wanted to be single for now...being 21. Does that make sense? Then a few weks before apt. time you guys start arguing and decide to take a break.
I guess what I'm asking is, is it selfish to tell a guy you just wanna be single right now, to have fun with friends, but you know your future is with this guy? Do you think the guy would understand? Wait for you? Like if you said "when I'm ready for a committed relationship, I know you're the one I want"...Do you ever just feel like you need to enjoy being single before you decide to be with som
2006-11-05 13:03:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
--eone you know you will be with the rest of your life?
2006-11-05 13:04:03 · update #1
Oh yeah and a part of it is that it's a long dist relationship too and lives far away.
2006-11-05 13:06:02 · update #2
what...no...he treats me like he loves me...hes always there for me and everything. thats not the problem. im 21 and i just feel ive always been in a relationship since HS and never had a chance to be single for that long and now that i have the guy i wanna be with for life, i feel like i need to just be single right now
2006-11-05 13:13:19 · update #3