This girl who I like who I was friends with is pretty popular and i am semi popular. She says hi to me and comes up to me and plays around with me. Shes super hot and I want to ask her out. But I don't know if she likes me or not. Do you think there is something going on or should I not bother wasting my time to ask her out. And how should I ask her out. And don't say just be yourself or just do it or open your mouth and say it because I already know that crap. Thanks for any help you can give me
2006-11-05 12:58:15 · 7 answers · asked by denverbroncos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she hangs out with the skaters and if I get rejected it will get around school and my whole rep. will go down the toilet
2006-11-05 13:26:48 · update #1
Hey, do what I did. Ask her to a movie or some other one-on-one activity, make sure she is the only one that comes. Don't hint that it's a date until you're there. Let her figure it out.
If you do the corny thing, like put your arm around her during the movie, she'll get the hint, too. I confess, I did it and it worked.
Big thing to remember, though. If she responds in a positive way (she doesn't run out of the theatre screaming), don't take the night any further along. Don't go for the first kiss or all the fun stuff that comes later. At the end of the night, see if she is interested in a date with you another time. She'll think you're a nice boy and probably say yes. (unless she's one of those promiscuous types, which may be fun once, but you'll regret it later, trust me).
And, if she doesn't want to go out again, you can always keep the friendship, cause you never really went out on a date, did you? You were just a couple friends hanging out.
Good luck!
2006-11-05 13:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by AnswerMan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she likes you, or she wouldn't be joking around with you. That is a good indication the a girl likes you. I think you should go for it... What have you got to lose. You could text her or use the straight approach. Just make sure you have a place pick out ahead of time. Tha way she will know you are serious.
2006-11-05 13:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by **LIBERTY** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is WAY popular than you and ur kinda floatin around in tha middle and by the way u describe her she sounds like she's pretty instrested in u. first of all i would make sure she's single !! 2nd i would kinda flirt with her and make her seem like u wanna start sumthin then i'd kinda cassually ask her " what would you say if i asked you out? " it worked on me like a charm lol :) good luck !!
2006-11-05 13:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Skaterboii's Best Friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just be yourself and ask her whats do she think about hollaring at you,and if she say that she just wants to be friends aleast you tried who knows she just might holla back good luck play boy
2006-11-05 13:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm in the same situation. Why don't you just give her a letter asking inside.
2006-11-05 13:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by pimp101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, walk up to her and start talking. Ask her for study notes and ask if you guys can study together. It is alot easier than asking her out on a date. When you are studying together, that's when you ask. Just say things like "thanks for your notes, I 'll take you out to dinner in return" and see her reaction.
2006-11-05 13:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should try and ask her out kinda give her a hint that ur digging her and write a note or email her saying that u like her.
2006-11-05 13:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by cagedanimal88 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋