Went on a date last Friday, did the whole thing, made her laugh listened to her for a good hour or so(I mean actually listened didn't just nod my head...some of us guys can actually do that you know!:-)) I complimented her on her clothes and hair etc(which was easy if I'm honest as she was gorgeous!) but after a few drinks she made some excuse to leave early, so I walked with here to the car park(being the gentleman that I am).She left in such a hurry I could have sworn the wheels on her car were screeching!......I'm guessing that wasn't a good sign?....lol.
Maybe I should try the nasty b****rd approach...hmm...works for some people I know....the only problem is I cant help but be Mr nice, that's just me!(don't get me wrong I don't have a halo or anything, I can be a bad boy to if the time arises ;-) lol)
What I guess I'm saying is if your going to complain about men being b****rds then give the good guys a chance we are out there you know. :-)
2006-11-05 12:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by mr_f.methathurts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol. Ok, I won't go into detail, but women like a bad guy to really p*** us off, upset us, humiliate and embarass us so we can be really miserable for a while and cry lots and talk about it 24/7 with our best friend and eat lots of chocolate. Then we look for a good guy to give us lots of sympathy and affection, hugs n stuff and listen to us endlessly, buff their ego cos they are sooo kind and good at it. Then we get bored and decide we need the bad guy again to keep us on our toes!!! lol. Maybe she just needed to poo really badly and didn't want to do it whilst out, or realised she'd left the oven on!!!
2006-11-05 12:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude who lost here? She did. May be she is in a hurry to get a bruise all over her face. Or may be she had another important thing.
But anyways, It's her loss.
My comment ,as a guy, Don't even change a millionth of an inch for a lady. I mean there are some nice girls too. Just wait on them and you will click when the time comes.
That is one of the reasons I hate dating. I mean you buy her stuff etc... You waste your time, money and notto mention the expectation of having a future mate. But booom they will tell you "you are a nice guy, but...."
Well their loss, that is why I don't feel sorry when they complain about all the abuse they get from their "bad guy bfs".
pffffff...Forget her and move on.
2006-11-05 12:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your a good guy then you will find a good girl, they aren't always the hottest girls like the one you were talking about. And if you are a nice guy be a nice guy through and through. My boyfriend is a nice guy. But he can be the most selfish I have to change for him or do what he wants all the f*cking time type of person!!! And I can't stand it!! Why can't he do things for me, becuase he wants to, that isn't something he would generally want to do!! I do it for him!!! ARG!!! That is part of being a nice guy. Don't forget that part. Oh, and I don't care if its your instinct, if you go out to dinner with a girl, don't look, glance, stare, or anything at the hot waitress everytime she walks by. JUST DON'T!! Have her be like any normal person....please. Please be the full nice guy, just not the, I'm a nice guy, but I'm can still be a dick!!! ok, did that help at all...thought it would...girls like nice guys. True. Some girls want a badass, but they will find out later that that they outgrow it, because they want to be treated right. You will be some girls dream, but be the whole dream!! Not a half dream....
2006-11-05 12:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, Honey, trust me, that will get you no where but in a cheap chick's pants. As a woman, let me explain exactly what we want.
We need a guy that is nice to us, but at the exact same time, just seems a bit dangerous. I've had it real bad for this one guy, it's not even funny, but he seems like the perfect guy. He is sweet and takes up for me when guys talk crap to me, and he is always quick to compliment me on one thing at a time. But at the exact same time, he'll jokingly talk about some one who has a problem with him and if I do anything to provoke him into doing so, he'll throw me over his shoulder and only put me down if I make it clear that I really want him to.
Like I said, be nice, but not suck up nice. Any girl will want to get with you. Oh, and one more thing, don't say ANYthing unless you REALLY mean it. You never know when a chick will call you out on something you say.
2006-11-05 12:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by Shel K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls that are interested in a real relationship want a good guy. The girls that just want to have some fun want a "bad boy". Just be yourself and wait for the girl that's right for you. Don't change for them. I know there are good guys out there, but they are so hard to find. Most of them end up being our best friend and don't want anything but friendship even though you fall head over heels for them.
2006-11-05 12:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not one of those weird guys like they show on Blind Date who think they are wonderful while the girl is trying to figure out why you are allowed out in public, are you?
If the answer is yes, hmmm..
If no, maybe she remembered some important laundry she had to do. Ask her out again. If she goes, its all good. If she has excuses for the next 60 weekends, she thinks you are a loser.
2006-11-05 12:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of girls out there who like the bad boys and I'll tell you, in my opinion, why they appeal to me.
It's a challenge for women as they want to be the ones who turn them into the nice guys but talking from experience, it never turns out like that.
I dated a real bad guy once who treated me like s*** but I kept going back for more. Even though I had Mr Nice Guy throwing himself at me, I still preferred Mr Bad Guy. I mean I would give anything for a date with Charlie from Coronation Street, I find him so sexy with his mean ways and can't help being attraced to that - I must be nuts!! (btw, that prob means nothing to you if you don't live in the UK, its a soap and he is the real nasty dude in it who treats all his women like s*** !)
I think there's a lot of women out there who like a bit of "rough" but won't admit it, cos we women are supposed to like the nice things in life like, fluffy little bunnies and kittens and rainbows and sugar and spice and all things nice!
Buy hey, just be yourself, don't ever change for anyone.
Don't knock the good guy till you've had the bad guy!
All the best with your future romances x
2006-11-05 13:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by angela g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its catch 22 babe - us 'good' girls have a hard time too!.....but its not just about 'bad' or 'good' its about whether you're they're 'type' or not.....don't take it too personally , and if she is being fussy - you're allowed to be fussy too!!!
Just know yourself that you are a good catch - and you do the shopping around to see if SHE deserves YOU!!!!!!!!
2006-11-05 12:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like a good guy who knows how to be bad, especially in the bedroom. xxx
2006-11-05 12:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love the bad boy type!!!!
2006-11-05 12:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by misssmoothforever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋