i just dated her and all we do is walk and talk and all of the above, what should i move on to and how should i aproach, help me out
2006-11-05 12:16:42 · 12 answers · asked by The A Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is 11 i am too but i might think about putting my arm around her, or should i ask her how comfortable she is with touch
2006-11-05 12:24:21 · update #1
Try just holding hands first...
2006-11-07 09:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by lovelostboys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you hang out start the date with a hug. I have found this helps loosen the ice because it is harmless. By her reaction to the hug you will be able to tell if she is comfortable to do more. If you chicken out at first though, don't worry... there is still time. Just try at some point by casualy putting your arm around etc. good luck and remember... it isn't really a good hug unless you mean it
2006-11-05 12:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by scottishchristiansen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being played big time ,sorry. You need to leave her alone because she is using you in her own way because she is still with the BOYFRIEND. I think she just likes all the excitement and attention. I would NOT keep wasting my time. Stop taking the tex messages and tell her if and when she breaks up with him to give you a call and see if you are still available. She may decide very soon in or not in your favor and it is best to get it over with. I myself see no sense in pretending to like a girl just to be around another girl. I think that it is not the right time for the two of you. And why make a promise for something that probably will never happen. Stop wasting your time.And leave your friends out of it.
2016-05-22 02:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try holding her hand while you walk. If she goes along with that you can try a hug when you split for the day.. don't try too much too fast or you'll be walking alone.
2006-11-05 12:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and if you want to hug her ease your way into it. like if you are going for a walk say that you want to sit down and when you do put your arm around her. and when you say good-bye give her a hug!
2006-11-05 12:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by rhianon_elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's right what you did. just take it slow when it comes to the touching part. you might scare her off. be sure that she has really warmed up to you before you even hold her hands. by the way you are TOO YOUNG!!
2006-11-05 12:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring her to the movies, or the park.. let things sizzle a bit and move on as the situation permits. but i warn you ot to move in too quickly. it never worksthat way, if you are a sincere guy.
2006-11-05 12:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by caterpillar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with holding her hand.. It may lead to a hug and a kiss.. be cool and don't rush ..
2006-11-05 12:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you
i really want to help you if you are over 35
2006-11-05 12:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss her ask her to the moives and make the move
2006-11-05 12:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by brooke w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋