ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
2006-11-05 12:01:03 · 14 answers · asked by lbsf2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
2006-11-05 12:01:45 · update #1
she is a tart..keep away from her.
2006-11-05 12:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give yourself time babe. She is with omeone else and their should be no reason why she is calling and keeping in so much touch with you. Importantly tell he how you feel about the situation, and tell her this is not fair about how she is treating you. i know for sure this relationship was not strong because she doesnt like to be alone so she went to someone else...how was she alone she had you even if yo were not there physically....yo were there mentally. I think you need to move on. She is immature and I am not sure how old you two are...but I feel as though she has to be abot twelve....sorry to say you can do beter, and i would be excited about worrying about myself! god bless babe!!!
2006-11-05 20:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some just can't let go. Expect a booty call in the future. Decide now how you'll respond.
2006-11-05 20:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by sirenontheriver 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants you, but just can't break it off with the other punk--who you hate. Call/text/message her and ask her, or maybe she'll tell you. If I were you I'd be like "I'll break up with him for you." If, that's what she wanted me (or, you) to do for her....
2006-11-05 20:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but why, if she can have you, is she still with the other guy?? she is with him just in case you do not want anything...she is playing too many cards at the same time...
2006-11-05 20:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by dltscyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she doesn,t know a good thing whenshe see one and now she knows that your thr one she really loves try it again maybe you will find out at i,m right go for it
2006-11-05 20:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's just tryin to hint that she wants you back but doesn't want to dump the other guy until she knows you want the same thing becasue she doesn't want to be alone if you reject her.
2006-11-05 20:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by nerdy_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows that you want to be with her and likes the attention you give her. Girls love to receive attention.
2006-11-05 20:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh im so sorry about that but she is not ready to settle down she dont realize whats she gots she is being selfish its best to get over her for now intill she is ready to settle down so sorry about that
2006-11-05 20:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by marys secret life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she still likes you so don't give up. it's just that other guy. ask her how she feels, that's the only way you'll be able to figure it out.
:) JoJo
2006-11-05 20:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by reader17jms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious she likes you stupid shes dropping you hints cause she wants to make sure you still like her
2006-11-05 20:08:06 · answer #11 · answered by milkyway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋