There's this guy that I really think is cute. He introduced himself to me and asked me if he could come over later. (we both live in the same dorm). I said ok. He comes over later and we have good conversation and he left about 2 hours later. He gave me a hug before he left and asked me what I was doing for the weekend and the next night. I told him what time I get off of work the next night and that I'm free over the weekend. yet it's been 3 nights already and he hasn't been over yet. We were watching a movie and he said he wanted to come back and watch the rest and he initiated the hug when he left. He also initiated coming over in the 1st place. So I know he was interested but why haven't I heard from him since then considering the fact that he was asking me what I was going to be doing this weekend. What's going on??
2006-11-05 11:53:16 · 8 answers · asked by KieraSimone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also kept asking me if I was involved with anyone else and giving me compliments..also it's not weird to visit someone's dorm, this is a college campus and everyone does that all of the time but I did keep him in the living room and I didn't let him in the bedroom. we didn't exchange numbers.. I don't think either one of us thought about it because he does live right under me in the same dorm and that was our first meeting with each other so.........
2006-11-05 11:53:44 · update #1
He wants you for sex..you have not seen him because he is working his way around the dorm for an easy lay...stay well away from him.
2006-11-05 11:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he is a good guy that wants to take it slow, but the only way to truely know is time. If he wants you he will come back, when they want you they just can't stay away. Maybe he's a little shy? who knows? Give it time, and if you see him ask him to hang out, or give him your number, then it will be up to him to make the next move, and you will see how he feels.
2006-11-05 19:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by StillBelieve143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest with you i think he may just be waiting for you! its kinda a crazy for him to just invite him self over your house for no reason. i'm proud of you for holding down your ground and not letting him in your bed room that should show him your not easy or trashy your classy and nice! but that may have scared him off. he may have thought otherwise! he may come around soon or later but don't you spend your precious time waiting on him! if he was just looking for a nasty gurl than you look at it this way maybe it was a great thing i didn't talk to him more or took it to the next step. you keep strong gurl and don't worry about that boy for all you know he could be another one of those boys who gots a little child of a mind and wat god gave thim(if you know wat i mean LOL) stuck in a grown mans body! so don't worry about it ! be sweet !!!
2006-11-05 20:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Miz Precious C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay on my opinion he is taking it slow, maybe he has beenn hurt a while back in the past and he is afraid that if he gets serious in a relationship with you that something bad might happen. and then again there are other things like he could be real busy you did say it is college and he could be studying., and he could be busy with work. if it is meant for you to date it will work out
2006-11-05 20:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he is playin with u maybe he just wants u 2 make the next move
2006-11-05 19:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-05 19:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously playing you. try to fall for someone else that doesn't play around.
2006-11-05 19:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you didn't trip his trigger........
2006-11-05 19:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋