Generalize men on sex?

Question

After looking on here about how men don't like to be generalized. I can't help but ask if they don't like it then where is it that women are getting it from? It has to come from somewhere and to be honest, I generalize men because I've never met one to prove me otherwise. There maybe some good men out there but I think that was in the past or their already taken. And what I found to be funny is that a guy told me not to generalize him because I didn't know him, but it was ok for him to do it to me before I did it to him. I find that rather interesting. Any thoughts?

Answer 1

I totally agree with you babe. it took me forever to find a great man, and yes.. I generalized him at first and then I realize I was wrong. There aren't really any GOOD men out here...Where the hell are they, thats my question gurl!!!! My gosh they expect us to be queens to them and then we get treated like crap, all I ever wanted was a mant hat can stand out from these sterotypical men, and it just seems as though you have to go to another world to get what you want. But yes i agree. hopefully society will help us change these men out here, because that is how they got the way they are...society.

Answer 2

Yeah I agree they are far and few between. Even though they might all like sex. If they aren't getting any then they move on to someone who will regardless of how great the person was that wasn't putting out. The problem is that majority of men do this and that leds to generalizing. Its the minority that don't have luck on both genders. Now a days society and people have a lack of morals and such and expect that just becaues they don't have any others shouldn't either. And if they do then they say "Good for you and you should stick to that" but not good for them and they move on.

Answer 3

On a message board like this, how can anyone NOT generalize another person. After all, this is not like everyone is sitting in a room somewhere and getting to really know everyone else.

If someone wants a specific answer, then ask a specific question.

Answer 4

There are generalizations in every group and sub group in the human race. That doesn't mean that every person fits that generalization. Gosh, how would these generalizations be thought up if there weren't some sense of truth in them?

There are some great guy out there. Don't stop looking.

Answer 5

So true. Most of the guys I know are quick to talk about how women always male-bash guys when they aren't like that. Then these same guys turn around and make comments about women drivers, etc., generalizing about women. It really ticks me off. I have actually met a few that aren't like that, but they are few and far between.

Answer 6

All men like sex - Go ahead and 'generalize' that :)
It has nothing to do with emotion, romance or love.
We dont need candlelight dinners or romantic music to make us want to get intimate.
But doesnt mean that all men cheat or thats the only thing they want is sex. It is ONE thing we always want, but not the only thing we want.
We do want sex, but we may want more -
that depends on the girl.
Yes, we go for personality and character and not just ****!

Answer 7

Simple common sense tells you that all men aren't bad. So why is it that you keep finding them? Wouldn't it maybe be a good idea to take a good HONEST look at yourself and figure why either you are attracted to bad men or they are attracted to you?

Answer 8

you are correct. us girls generalized on sex and the normal day to day relations cuz we had similar experiences. most men ive met havent proved me wrong. i went out with one guy who use to say "im different, im not like other guys". to me talk is cheap. he was no one special.

men hate to be labeled and compared with the rest.

Answer 9

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