I hate hispanics, but I really like this Puerto Rican boy, and he seems to like me too, we have been on a few dates and stuff,im just very confused right now about my feelings
2006-11-05 11:37:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, HATE is such a loaded word.. Race has nothing to do with who you like, you need to stop being racist and focus on what good things people have to offer and focus on what they have on the inside instead of what they look like on the outside.
2006-11-05 11:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your dislike of Hispanics will eventually become a problem for the Puerto Rican boy.
2006-11-05 11:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you hate Hispanics for any particular reason, or do you just hate the social appearance that has become attached to them?
If you did have such a strong hatred, you would not have gone out with Johnny Puerto Rican in the first place, so I suspect you are just unsure of what you feel towards most anything in this area. I would recommend that you do what makes you happy, and forget about your hatred of Hispanic people.
2006-11-05 11:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by The Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you hate a race ? Have they done something to you in any way ? I don't think that the whole race has hurt you ? You should judge people on a one on one basis and not classify them under a category. If one Hispanic has gotten on your nerves or caused for you to hate him/her just hate on them but not on their whole race ??? I hope that this " Puerto Rican boy" as you classified him changes his mind about you because he shouldn't like a racist like you !
2006-11-05 11:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are a genuine bigot, I find it hard to believe that you hate Hispanics. I do not like the problems we have in the U.S. caused by the influx of Hispanics, but I do not hate Hispanics. Regardless, I would think this attitude would eventually have a negative effect on this relationship.
2006-11-05 11:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by out of order 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to hate a type of person in a race but not the race. I do. I hate the thugs, rappers, and gang banger types, but do not have a problem with blacks in general. Same with Hispanic's, there is both bad and good to ANY race. HOWEVER, I do not agree with mixed babies. My friend is mixed and he catches heck from both sides. No matter what anyone wants this world to be, it still is racist, and It kills me to hear mixed parent's say "so what, as long as they have love at home", they kids have to live it.
Judge the person, not the background.
2006-11-05 11:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u don't hate Hispanic .. you just hate some one that is annoying of did son thing to you ... people have tendency to think that because 1 or 2 individuals did son thing bad is there race ... like WE Hispanic are picture like lazy and corrupt but .. every where in the world have jails and they all aren't full of Hispanic ... and wow stop with the hate please
2006-11-05 11:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by legna20v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you just have to think about the reasons that you hate Hispanics. is it because of racial stereotyping or does he actually do/say things that you really dislike? if he really is a good guy and you like him, his race shouldn't be a problem.
2006-11-05 11:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Art_Nouveau 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should look past his race. He's obviously a really nice guy and he'd be the same whether or not he was another race. Maybe this is a sign that you shouldn't hate people for their race but love them for who they really are...
2006-11-05 11:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes! only if u are a religous person. hate is a harsh word, don't u think. remember who is the (creater) for the puerto rican guy.
2006-11-05 11:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by kato c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋