2006-11-05 11:34:40 · 16 answers · asked by MD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes...you will probably fall out ...find another guy.
2006-11-05 11:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help it if you have the same taste in guys as your friends do, and there's nothing wrong with that. But if your friend appoaches the guy first and starts talking to him & dating him, then it's wrong for you to continue to have a thing for the guy. Look elsewhere if that's ever the case. You don't want to ruin a relationship with your friend because of some random guy. I know that this isn't exactly what you were asking, but eventually stuff like this happens a lot, and you just have to think to yourself that 'everything happens for a reason.' If you didn't get a chance with someone, look elsewhere. It was meant to be that way anyway!
2006-11-05 19:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by yiota216 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your friends have similar taste, so I would expect that you could like the same guys. It is OK. Just try not to turn it into a competition. Guys come and go, but close friendships should last longer. There may come a time when you may have to choose between a close friendship or dating a guy. Choose wisely. If he has been dating your friend, then don't date him until your friend says it is over between them. And please have her stress 'It is over!' Time to move on. Moving on is she dates someone else, and he dates someone else. It should not matter if that someone else is a close friend, Why? Because it is over. If he was abusive or dangerous to be around, share that info with your friend. This I can't have him so no one else can have him does not do anyone any good.
2006-11-05 19:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You being attracted to him is not wrong, you cannot help who you are attracted to. However, you can help what you do about it. You have to decide, is this guy worth your friendship with your friend? You may go into a battle with your friend, whoever is more persistant and dedicated on getting this guy, will get him. Keep in mind, if you and your friend both go for him, and one of you gets him...this very well may jeopardize your friendship. See what you personnally value more. Your friend will be with you always if you play the cards right, boyfriends come and go. Do yourself a favour, and go with what you know is right.
2006-11-05 19:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with having the same crush (unless u only like him becuz she does but that doesn't seem to be the case). i'll warn you though, things could get complicated. in the end, he can only have one of you and the other one will get hurt. unless your totally in love with him, try finding another guy. or maybe she likes someone else more. but there's nothing wrong with it, persay.
2006-11-05 19:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong, no- you cannot control your feelings. Wise, No, it is the wrong thing to do to your friend. Which is more important, they guy or your friendship?
2006-11-05 19:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not wrong... buh itll prob ruin ur rrelationship w/ur friends.. and you knoe tat corny quote "chichk b4 *****" its true.. friendships last forevere...relationships on the other hand...dont.
2006-11-05 19:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ameera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no. My best friend and I practically LOVED the same guy, and we didn't get mad. She was the one who 'pointed out' his 'beauty' to me. Then, we both 'fell in love'
2006-11-05 19:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't, but are you planning on ask him out? does she know that you like him too? hopefully, you two don't end up fighting over him and ruining your friendship with your friend. good luck!!
2006-11-05 20:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Felicia D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i find it wrong..it just makes it awkward for you two but just talk it out with her i guess and see who likes him the most and figure it out from there..or find someone else if she likes him more?
2006-11-05 19:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋