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either to their boyfriends or husbands.
why can't they just stick to one guy?
why?
is it the sex?
the money?

2006-11-05 11:31:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

35 answers

I'm sorry you are hurting. Sometimes it just isn't meant to be.

2006-11-05 11:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1 0

ok , not all women are unfaithful even if there partner is. women have a tendency to try to work it out to keep a family together men on the other hand will get bored and will sleep with anyone that pays them some attention. Or when there wife gets older he will find some young chic he has noting in common with to be with just to show her off. The wife invested 20 years into a marriage and then finds out her husband is sleeping with his eighteen year old co worker. Sorry this subject makes me bitter.....

If i was going to cheat it would be with someone i could talk to , who really listend to me and enjoyed spending time with me. Not for money, a real woman makes her own.

2006-11-05 11:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by Notsogreatlife31 1 · 0 0

The truth is, both men and women are unfaithful. I could tell you all the psycho-jargon about parent to child legacies, but I think what it really comes down to is the fact that unfaithful partners truely don't know what they want.

A woman in this regard does best when she understands herself fully enough to know what she wants. (I could say "what she wants in a guy") but thats not a good place to start. If she knows she wants love and loyalty, she will devote all of her efforts in a relationship to preserve love and loyalty. It takes one to know one... she will recognize this virtue in the one she seeks. A woman that truely wants that won't be looking toward other guys.

A woman who finds herself unfaithful never really knows what she wants- this is a very damaging characteristic when it involves a relationship. She is chasing another guy because she is still searching.

Guys can save themselves heartaches by choosing his woman more carefully. This goes for both men and women.

Personally, I have found that a relationship of two people who put equal interest in each other (the girl isn't waiting for him to win her over) generally do better. Its not likely that a girl will "learn" to love a guy who has won her like a trophy because that is all he will be doing the rest of the relationship, trying to keep her. In this case, the guy is a fool. A loving relationship should never be this hard.

2006-11-05 11:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by jakemytree 2 · 0 0

you know I'm 42 years old why do woman become unfaithful number of reasons alot not all men like to play games everybody believes that both sexs can not understand each other when in fact we want the same things love someone responsible someone who cares about us and our needs but we all seem to not realize this so we are at odds with each other so if someone cheats there are needs not being met so as far as sex if needs are not being met some will stray not all but some as far as money that to me is selfish gold digging and really has no thought in life not even worth having male or female so if a female leaves you because of money good riddance she wasn't the one for you anyway

2006-11-05 12:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by kayme42 4 · 0 0

Cause, u don't know if a person is the one u want to be with all the time. That's why we have dating. We may find that the guy isn't right, Not all of us are unfaithful. Guys are unfaithful too. So don't throw the blame all on us. It sounds like u're afraid of dating tho. U shouldn't, it's the only way u're going to find a girl.

2006-11-05 11:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0 0

specific and no. from time to time the cheater unearths somebody else and is derived to a decision to end their marriage to delight in the only life. different circumstances, the cheater is caught yet desires to stay interior the courting however the different better half say thats it and ends it them self. And specific, unfaithfulness i might say is the main properly known reason that maximum marriages fail now a days; now and lower back there is underlying the rationalization why the cheater cheats (no longer loves the better half, fell in love with somebody else, rigidity interior the marriage) yet its nonetheless a substantial element in on the instant's divorces.

2016-11-27 20:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

not all women are like that you know. some of them are like that for different reasons. some reasons are like you said, sex and money. other reasons are that maybe they have doubts, can't decide which guy to be with, think that the guy they are with seems unfaithful to her...

2006-11-05 11:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Faithfulness is not limited to one sex. And reasons for lack of it are many, but at the core is lack of values and morals. Anyone who cheats has a severe chacture fault. Personially, I would never trust a person that has cheated before, no matter what the reason.

2006-11-05 11:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1 0

They do not know what the word, trust and commiment are. men are the same way.Infact, people, men and women are like that. it's all about the person, you have to know who is the right one, and they want to treat the person they commit too. people have all different reasons why thet commit adultery, and cheat on their boyfriends. I like to think the girl or guy is immature and not a trustworthy person, which makes me not even want o get to know them. i am so blessed to have one man who only loves me and wants to be with me. I am faithful to him and he is to me. We both know that because we are strong christians and we know what the words love, trust, commitment, patience, hope and faith. Otherwise if ppl dont kno those terms then they dont need to commit to a special person that knows those words. remember this and I am sure you wil be blessed with that person who will treat you right.

2006-11-05 11:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by old 4 · 0 0

Actually men are much more likely to cheat on their wives. But usually when women cheat it is because they feel ignored by their current bf or husband. That's why I cheated..my boyfriend would not give me the time of day so I found someone that would.

2006-11-05 11:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0 1

Excuse me but it is a fact that considerably more men than women cheat on their significant others!

I have never cheated in my life so I can't give a good answer as to why women cheat. I would never think of doing it.

2006-11-05 11:37:48 · answer #11 · answered by RoZ 4 · 0 0

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