i have two 3 guys in my life one i know loves me to death, the other he loves me too but he has some one else, the last one i don't know his feeling for sure but i'm head over heals in love with him help me please
2006-11-05 11:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by Blu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tough, choose the less problematic variant and talk to the third one he might be the one
2006-11-05 11:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by mc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you want the one that doesn't want you! Nix that one!
There is chemistry or their is no chemistry. Maybe he doesn't feel that chemistry. To choose a good mate watch how he really treats his family. Watch how he treats animals and children.. How does he treat you. Do you have any issues with him. Don't sweep them under the carpet as they won't go away. Thinking of marriage? Go and seek pre-marriage counseling. Is he your same religion? This important. The Bible says not to be unequally yoked. Have him spend a lot of time around your family. AND THEN REALLY LISTEN TO WHAT YOUR FAMILY SAYS ABOUT HIM. They are older with more wisdom and can see personality traits that simply will not mix after the initial physical attraction settles down. What do you think marriage is?
It's both of you uniting to form a family of your own. There's every day humdrum things like working, cleaning house, grocery shopping, washing the car, mowing the lawn, laundry, changing the baby's diaper, cooking dinner, giving him a back rub when he's hurting even though your so tired. I could go on and on and on... But their are the wonderful things as you become as one person, so very close, no one, but no one will protect you like he will or know so very much about you. Think, girl, physical attraction is fundamental, but it sometimes gets in the way of making clear, smart and life-changing decisions.
2006-11-05 11:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one...
When you're with "the one" you smile for no apparent reason at all. You could have fun watching paint dry with "the one". When you miss the silly little things about someone its a sign... When it physically hurts to be away from someone...
The one... would never hurt you in any way... the one... won't have someone else... the one will make sure you know how he feels... the one will feel the same way you do...
2006-11-05 11:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by sassiecassie76 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think i would rule out the second one, since he has someone else in his life. as for the other two, seriously consider your options. have you tried talking to the last guy? see where he stands. if he feels the same way you do, you owe it to yourself to follow your heart, and if the first guy loves you as much as you say he does, he will understand.
2006-11-05 11:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get over the guy who has someone else. He will bring you nothing but heartache. The one you like but you don't know if he likes you, make sure you don't just like him because of the "chase". The one who loves you...I'd stick with him.
2006-11-05 11:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you should be with the one who love u the most. (1st one). Cause he will be the one who will be with you through thick and thin, through bad and good and ups and downs in life.
All the best
Good luck and God bless
2006-11-05 17:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go after the 1st one, the guy who love you. you will never repent choosing him ever in your life. coz with the second one it is called adultery and the third one is a risk if he does'nt have the same feelings for you.
2006-11-05 12:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by GAWD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the guy with a professional degree and a good job.
2006-11-05 14:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by sheetal501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the one you are in love with and see how he feels but you never know one of the other guys may be the one for you, just make sure what ever one you choose treats you right
2006-11-05 11:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by sam 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WOW tat sux 4 u
2006-11-05 11:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by The Lovely Ladies of Soccer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋