If you liked someone, would you tell them how you feel about them?

Question

There is this one guy who i've liked for ages, but feel shy to tell him my feelings.

Answer 1

No, I wouldn't tell him. It's better to be alone and sad rather than face the embarrassment of actually letting someone know you like them. I mean, he may like you back and then you have to go through the messy business of a relationship, mibbe marriage and kids, oh and eternal happiness, as well as all the fun stuff and the gooey feeling you get when he kisses you!

So better to sit back, do nothing, die alone and live a life full of regrets!

Answer 2

Don't be shy! The best thing in the world you can do is just come out with it. If the feelings aren't mutual then at least you approached the situation like an adult and you stand a better chance of having and keeping a better relationship with him.

Answer 3

I would tell them... simply because I know how it feels to like someone for ages and try to act like everything's the same when it isn't. And true, it might not work out, seeing as we don't all live in a fairytale. He might not like you in the same way, and it might be awkward, but at least you've saved yourself further days/weeks/months of agony, uncertainty and wondering "does he like me?!" And you can then move on to all the other fish in the sea.

This way, if it doesn't work out, you can hold your head up high and say that at the very least you went out on a limb n tried for it, and of course if it does works out then.. good for you! x

Answer 4

i've never been in ur position before, neva had the urge to tell a guy u like him.
infact i dont buy the idea. it's supposed to b d other way round. maybe u should just wait till he comes to u. that way he'll cherish u beta in the end, wont take u to b cheap. unfortunately i seem to love this song: "Tell him... " by Celine Dion and Barbara Streisand though i wont advise u to.

Dont go to him!
Make him come!
U anit cheap! u said u waited for ages.

or ar u?

Answer 5

I'd play it by ear. You don't want to give to much of yourself away because some people take advantage. If he likes you it'll come about sooner or later. Let them do the chasing. The ones who don't care enough to pursue us will only let us down in the end.

Answer 6

Only if I were stupid enough all over again. Been there, done that. The only exception to this I suppose is if the guy is unbearably shy. Any other kind of guy, keep it to yourself until he pursues you.

Answer 7

Don't be shy! You may never know if he likes you back untill you tell him your feelings. GO FOR IT!

Answer 8

i have been in this situation so many times and i always regreted not telling the person my feelings because soon he will start to like other girls and it will kill you to see them together so if you dont tell him you will regret it too

Answer 9

if you like him you better get over your shyness and i mean soon before somebody else snatch him right on up. girl you better step yo game up it is 2006 and women been asking men out. get with the program

Answer 10

tell him how you fill. like get to a point were you guys are talking and having a good confersation then tell him.