I work at a dental office. There are two dentist one owner of the practice and an associate. I work with the associate and have this huge crush on him. I think the feeling is mutual coz we both frirt with each other.I am single and so is he but I dont know if he is seeing someone else. He is a good looking guy and I am not. I am not sure if I should go ahead and ask him out and take it from there. I need help what should I do.I think all the staff know about it including the other dentist. If I were to ask him out I dont know how to say so I dont want to embarase myself.
2006-11-05 10:59:20 · 11 answers · asked by jenebee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
F*** him and you will get a raise.
2006-11-05 11:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's a good idea. If things don't work out then you'll have to think that you are working with this man and things will not be the same after that. Do you really want to put your professional life in a crisis for this ? Unless you're completely sure ( or planning on leaving your job ) then I would ask him out or Else I wouldn't do it.
2006-11-05 11:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume you are a woman and if so, there is no reason to feel your're not good looking. Get a total makeover. Check with a beauty parlor.
With a smart hair do, right make up and right clothes all you need is a nice personality. And I think you have that already.
Then go for it. Nothing ventured,nothing gained.
2006-11-05 11:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him do the pursuing. You don't want to make your situation at work uncomfortable, and if he makes the first move, you will not have to worry about jumping to the wrong conclusion about his interest in you. Men like the challenge of pursuing a lady, and let's face it, we like to play a little hard to get so that we know they are really interested. If he's interested in pursuing a relationship with you, he'll let you know soon enough.
2006-11-05 11:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you lose your job if you find out he is different out side of work and you don,t like him that could make things very weired at work. And you say other already have some idea that your flirting with one another just go out for lunch that harmless enough to see if you have anything in common out side of flirting.
2006-11-05 11:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. keep it out of the office or eventually you'll be looking for another job. If he ever asks you out, still really think about it, would it really work?
2006-11-05 11:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. how important is ur job, cause it would suck if it didn;t work and if you don't talk enough to know if he got a partner, maybe you don't flirt as much as u think. good luck with it
2006-11-05 11:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by sick of fakes.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ahead talk to him and tell him how you feel he might fell the same way.
2006-11-05 11:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way....never mix buisness with pleasure, it's sure to bite you in the ***!!!
2006-11-05 11:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by So What 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea.
2006-11-05 11:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋