Im scared to lose my virginity.?

Question

Im really scared can someone help me out here..

Answer 1

This might help.
http://scarleteen.com/sexuality/readiness.html

Answer 2

It's normal. You have the same fears that a lot of other people have had since the beginning of time. I can sit here and try to give you advice, but the truth is that no one probably knows you better than your own parent, an older brother or sister, or a very good friend. There are a lot of people you can talk to, and if they don't know how to help you, or if their answer doesn't sit right with you, (if you are still scared), you can speak with a clergy person. A very understanding listener at the KAJN Christian Station once helped me with a problem I was having. He prayed with me, and even though I wasn't sure how everything would turn out, it was a relief knowing that someone listened to me and understood me. Only one of their phone numbers is: 1(337)289-6940. Someone there will definitely be able to get you in touch with the right person, and you don't even have to reveal your name or anything about yourself that you don't want revealed. For the record ... there are a lot of virgins still out there who are comfortable with their decision to remain virgins. If you are scared to lose your virginity, there is a reason. Don't put so much pressure on yourself to do something you are not ready for, or may never be ready for. You don't want to do something now that you will never be able to take back. Wait until you are sure about what you want to do. You will know when that time comes ... you won't be scared.

Answer 3

If your scared to lose it then you have the choice not too. Dont let anyone talk you into doing something you are not comfortable with. If this person you want or are thinking of losing it to loves you, they will wait. Guys will tell you anything to get into your pants. And believe me, in the 30 yrs i've been alive i can honestly tell you, if they dump you because of that reason they were not worth having in the first place.

Answer 4

If you're really scared then that's a huge sign that you aren't ready to have sex. Wait for the right person to come along...one day you will know it's right and you will be nervous, anxious, happy, and excited, but NOT scared.

Answer 5

see the thing is...when you can say "i'm scared to lose my virginity" that means your NOT READY to lose your virginity!!! sure a lot of people are scared but with the helo of your mate and yourself is supposed to demolish the fear....so wait until you find someone you trust a bit more..or wait until you trust that person more...and you become more comfortable!!! just wait it out!!!

Answer 6

first of all, if anyone tries to pressure u, tell me and i'll come n' beat their @$$. i was also scared my first time....i didnt know what i would do if something went wrong. and if u end up needing any help. there are many teen hotlines you can call for more details. fight fear with information. and if ur not ready, then know one can make u.

Answer 7

If you find the right peson and ur protected u have nothing to worried about. dont worry about performance ur partner will undertsand that ist ur first time.

Answer 8

dont do it because the first few times suck anyway and im being serious - wait until you find the love of your life and he doesnt ask you for it.

Answer 9

Then hang on to it until your wedding night.
It's a precious gift but you can only give it once.
You're worth waiting for, too.

Answer 10

well if you fell comfortable with it deep down in side if that helps