i wannna ask him like 'fav movie..' ect. but i dont wanna sound like a 20 q. game help? XD
2006-11-05 10:58:23 · 13 answers · asked by tinkerbellavic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go slow. Unravel his personality slowly. Except for the important things like, are you married, etc.
2006-11-05 11:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking questions is good, as long as it isn't overdone or done like an interrogation, it shows interest. Just ask the questions when it feels right. For example, if you watched a good movie last night, mention it and how you felt about it, then ask him what movies he likes. Just remember, though, that your likes and dislikes don't have to match perfectly. It's good to have some similar interests, but don't freak out if one of you loves a movie and the other hates it. Also, getting to know someone really well, intimately, takes time, so be patient. It could take months or sometimes even years, and even then, you may not know everything there is to know about them, I personally think this is a good thing, you're never done, there's always more to explore and learn.
2006-11-05 19:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your senses & be observant. Sometimes you can tell a lot about a person just from what they wear, how they react, etc. but if you don't feel that observant... then just ask. Perhaps a "game" of 20 questions would be fun. Just don't over do it & turn it into 120 questions. ;) Take turns asking each other likes & dislikes, or strike up a conversation about whatever it is you want to know.
2006-11-05 19:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by its_me_horses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how u feel.
So try to ask no more then 17 question =-) I kidding, but sometimes u have to ask a lot of questions in order to know the person and find out about them.
2006-11-05 19:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it isn't about getting all the information up front. It is all about connection. Talk about other stuff and the details will come into the conversation later. If you want to get all the info up front to just impress them, then you have it all wrong. Be yourself and just spend time with them, it will happen.
2006-11-05 19:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting to know someone takes time. You don't need to do the 20 questions thing.
2006-11-05 19:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to observe and listen to him.
You can tell a lot about a person from what he or she says if you know how to interpret.
For example it is preferable to hear him call you beautiful rather than 'hot chick". His language will tell you about what is important to him or what is not.
2006-11-05 19:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about what you like, and see if he likes it as well... mention it casually, not so obviously that he'll be able to tell you're dispensing question after question... :-) gl!! Take it slowly... you don't have to ask him all about it at one time? Or, you can ask him for his screenname or email, so that you can talk to him more... it's understandable to ask more online...
2006-11-05 19:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be casual, don't worry about seeming silly. Find a common interest and go with it!
2006-11-05 19:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it a game.
2006-11-05 19:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋