got into a fight with my girlfriend and said a bunch of things i shouldn't have about things in the past. she got pissed and left. we talked on the phone and i told her i didn't mean anything by what i said i was just angry. because i was she dosen't see it that way. no she is all mad at me and said that she would call me tommorow. what can i do to make this right
2006-11-05 10:55:40 · 12 answers · asked by tootallclint 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think people say things for a reason....
When somebody says harsh stuff to you, they'll say afterwards "Oh I'm sorry, I didn't mean it"... They probably *do* feel sorry and regret saying hurtful things to you, but I think they *do* mean those things but they just never meant to say them out loud... Anger is just about letting the truth out, good or bad...
I think you should wait for her to call you (and if she doesn't, you know what you gotta do) and make sure things are clear and there's no misunderstanding between the two of you... She'll come around when she realizes that you truly care about her, believe me.
2006-11-05 11:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are too many people who can't really control their tongue when they are angry. For the reasons, it may be psychological (not that you are sick or crazy, etc, which a doctor may explain to you better). They often say things that are harsh and painful, and then they ought to regret it afterwards.
But, that is controllable. You can always say things in a much better way. Not hurting anyone. You just need to have a strong self-control.
For you to make things straight, you said, u already apologized. When she will realize that you are sincere enough, she will forgive you. Maybe u hurt her too much with what you had said. Just give her time. Just consider that ladies are too sensitive sometimes. And, there are many things that you can do to help her realize you didn't mean to say those things.
And, if she will forgive you (I hope she will), avoid repeating it again. Am afraid, she will never believe you again. Good luck! :)
2006-11-05 11:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Diane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told her you were just angry, and you didnt mean what you said, but she didn"t see it that way. She said she would call you the next day. Do nothing , and wait for her to call. Give her some time.
If this happens often (you saying things out of anger) It would be best to set your mind on the problem, and try to remedy it. Walk away when your getting angry and frustrated,tell her you need some space to cool off. When you calm down and she is too, then approach her again and sit down and talk about things .Hope this is helpful, relationships aren't easy. Hopefully you two can work things out. All the best.
2006-11-05 11:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by yikes! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I easily tend to sweep particularly some issues off. i'm undecided if this is the marvelous factor to do or no longer. yet existence is effective and to get recommend basically gets you worked up. even however I easily tend to do it. I even have faith in karma. in case your are continuously surrounding your self around undesirable energies, they'll come again to hang-out you. additionally, once you sell stable energies in you existence all this is stable will come again on your existence. issues ensue for a reason stable and undesirable. hence, i do no longer stay on the stuff I did however the way i visit be. That suggested i think of that the meanest factor I ever did replaced into call my husband a unfavorable word in front of my son. i replaced into heated. yet my parents did that as quickly as i replaced right into a baby and that i hated it. hence, I evaluate that recommend. I easily tend to chew my tongue now, no count how annoying it hurts.
2016-10-21 08:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that a lot of the time you say the things you really do mean but never say other times because you dont want to hurt the other person. Thats why fights can hurt because you know its the truth.
2006-11-05 10:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by radiancia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice anger management! We are all guilty of this at one time or the other. She is not elite, and I am sure she has done the same thing to someone else, if not you! At moments like this we say things to really hurt people because of this out burst of uncontrolled anger! Next time, before you start with the tourette's syndrome, stop and mentally count to 10. :) All you can do is say your sorry, and hopefully being human too, she will forgive you on that formality!
2006-11-05 11:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you shouldnt have gotten into a fight in the first place, but now that you hve buy her roses or chocolates or something to make her happy.
2006-11-05 11:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're angry you're often talking faster than your logic can control what is coming out of your mouth. It can also be said that you're more honest when you are angry because you are already upset and you can't control what is coming out of your mouth
2006-11-05 10:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her hurting People hurt others and your sorry and will try and put the pain of the past behind you we all have faults.
2006-11-05 11:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They want to hurt you when they're angry.
2006-11-05 10:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋