My present gf of about 2 months is 8 yrs older, and we meet four days a week, but only for sex. When I suggest we go out to a show or dinner, she refuses saying she has other friends for that and has occassional sex with them too. But with me she only wants sex because she says I satisfy her most.
She wants to continue with me as long as possible, even after she gets married whenever.
I have tried it with one or two other girls more of my age, but I did not enjoy as much with them as I do with her. I told her so thinking it will make her feel good, but she cried for hours.
Now I am getting a little scared of her but I don't want to leave her. I've learnt a lot from her. All I want is to do other things with her like going out, and having dinner, etc .Please advise.
2006-11-05 10:55:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, first of all, she doesnt sound like your gf, she sounds more like a friend with benefits. The only thing that ties you two is SEX. That's not a relationship.
"When I suggest we go out to a show or dinner, she refuses saying she has other friends for that and has occassional sex with them too."
"other friends"? That's not right, you should try and set her straight, because once the sex runs out you'll be left with absolutely nothing. What you need is someone who you can spend time with, someone who shares the same interests, and someone who you know will want more than just sex with you. If you can't find a girl your age thats as good as sex as she is, why not teach them a few tricks? you say you've learned alot from her, dont you think its time to teach other girls what you like the most about her? You need someone commited, but hey, if she's what you're into then thumbs up for you. Good luck!
2006-11-05 11:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It won't last in its present form, but rather than break, it may mutate. I think it will ultimately end though, perhaps after quite a while. Something is going on in her that is nothing to do with you per se. You will grow tired of this.
Or you might get indignant rather quickly and end it there. After all, she's not offering what you need, and she's occupying a fair bit if your life.
So: not a sustainable situation. It may find its natural conclusion in time, but you should also think about ending it quicker.
2006-11-05 11:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you are only a booty call to her and if you are willing to be just that stay but if you want more then you must move on and all that wonderful stuff she has taught you in bed teach it to someone else that is willing to go out in public with you. and you might end up with the perfect woman.
2006-11-05 11:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by been there 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run away very fast. She is not ever gonna commit, also, what age are you because you sound really young. However, If older women are really your thing..... Hi, How you doin!!!!
Honest tho chicky, she sounds like a real damaged bunny boiler!
2006-11-05 10:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sluttty McSluttt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has sex with her friends? so is she really ur girlfriend or is she a girlfriend to many other people out there? risk of STI and many many more infections. wot the hell! she's using u. get away frm her quick and fast. remember she is older, she has power over u.
2006-11-05 10:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like a bad situation.
2006-11-05 11:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way will this last, she does not want anything to do with you other than sex. and as soon as she finds another to satisfy her more than you do, you will be history.
i think it is time you woke up and saw this for what it is.
2006-11-05 12:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by mythmagicdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it off! It's a bad situation with nowhere to go!
2006-11-05 10:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
re title.
You will split up, 2 months, one week and 3 days, from now.
2006-11-05 10:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by ben b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It won't last.
She's an idiot and so are you.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-05 12:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋