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ive been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. she just broke up with me again for like the 5th time. she all of a sudden out of nowhere says shes unhappy and doesnt want to be with me but always wants to be friends. when i tell her no she always comes back to me. i do everything for her, treat her very god, and take care of her better than anyone else could so why is she so unhappy. this happens like every 3 months. when she isnt unhappy we get along perfect, no arguing or fighting and we have a great time. she even talks about us moving back to her home town 2gethor. whats the problem here? i know for a fact shes not cheating and there arent any other guys, and i just wanna give up on her but its hard

2006-11-05 10:04:43 · 13 answers · asked by quest 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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move on... there are plenty of girls out there that wont play head games like this on you... you are her doormat... i know thats not what you want to here but hey if you get married or pack up and move then she kicks you to the curb then what????

2006-11-05 10:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by momoftwobestkids 3 · 0 0

To be honest with you, i believe that she needs to grow up. i went through the same thing with my ex, after a year and 8 months of dating i must've broken up with him 4 times, why? because i was stupid, playing little kid games and i needed to grow up. The only reason she comes back to you is because you're willing and because you let her, so she feels like she always has you to fall back on when things dont work out the way she wants them to. You need to set her straight and let her know that everything she does has a consequence and if she's not ready to commit then you shouldn't be her doormat either. She's not going to find another guy that treats her the way you do, trust me on this, tell her its time to grow up and stop playing with your emotions, at the rate things are going between you two its better off to be friends and just have eachother's back instead of pretending you have a relationship thats going somewhere, when in reality it isnt getting you anywhere.

2006-11-05 18:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0 0

Sorry but it may be time. Your not giving up on her. Just because there is no anger between doesn't mean you should stay together. Sometimes a romantic relationship just ends as a friendship instead. She is not saying she is unhappy she is saying that she just wants to be friends. She is staying with you because she doesn't want to lose your friendship. She needs you as a friend and nothing more. Be friends with her instead. She seems like a sweet girl that doesn't want to hurt you. You are making it harder for her by demanding her to be you girlfriend. She knows you are sweet but she doesn't feel romantically involved with you anymore.

2006-11-05 18:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by someone ha 2 · 0 0

Maybe she has some mental control issues? Or maybe she is menstral or something. Some women just act a bit crazy sometimes. If it is her normal way to act every few months, just expect it to happen and roll with the wave. I am saying this of course by thinking you don't want to leave her. If this is something that you think you can deal with, and she always comes back to you....don't sweat it.

2006-11-05 18:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Corona 5 · 0 0

She broke up with you for the FIFTH time??? Why do you keep going back? Enough is enough. If you are apart now, then stay that way. She's just playing with your mind. She doesn't love you, and more importantly, she doesn't respect you. You don't need to put up with her crap and you deserve better. Stay away from her and give yourself time to get over her. Then go find someone else.

2006-11-05 18:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0 0

well sometimes a girl gets tired of havin such a perfect relationship.. sometimes wen everything is just soo perfect it makes it seem fake. the best tihng about fightin is makin up and wen u make up it makes u closer!!! so maybe that's it and maybe u should just talk to her about it tell her how u feel about getting played with cuz she will date u 3 months then just break up with u it wil get old after a while and then ya'll might just lose each other. just ask her whats wrong and y she does it.

2006-11-05 18:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by i_love_mickeyickey 1 · 1 0

mate you need to leave her as she aint gonna change now, the fact that you still went back after she left for thr FIFTH time is slightly scary...
Take it from me though because my ex messed me around and I went back once and once only, after that we broke up and I got over her easy, I am now with the one that I truely love and I always will love, infact we move in together in a couple of weeks.

So just leave her and find someone that will treat you right because she aint that person dude.

hope you find someone else soon
Mitch

2006-11-05 18:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

she wants to see if you will stick around but at the same time it seems like she just keeps stringing you along..find yourself someone else because you will continue to be in the situation and always will have to wonder when the next time will be that she says it's over

2006-11-05 18:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by livewire 2 · 0 0

Very indicative of mild depression. Not to sound rough -seriously she should see a Doctor if she's not just screwing with you. Mood swings are very treatable.

2006-11-05 18:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It honestly sounds to me like she is playing games with you. She keeps breaking up with you just to see if you will come back to her.

2006-11-05 18:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2 0

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