2006-11-05 09:51:21 · 9 answers · asked by irina m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
irina: How do you know if you love him when you haven't spent the time around him to get to know him? You have a bad case of "puppy" love or infatuation ! Why don't you just date around - why go steady anyways? Why rob yourself of loosing the opportunity to have good experiences in your younger years? When you enter a relationship with any guy like this one - where you come across as "chasing" him, you are inviting a whole lot of trouble to yourself, which you will hurt later on for. You are telling him that you are available and that doesn't just mean for lunch together - if you catch on to my drift !!! Really; I wish you would scare him away for YOUR own well-being in the long run.
2006-11-05 10:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't let him know without telling him... look if you love him you should tell him... he'll have more respect for y ou because he will think you are bold... Don't excatly tell him yet ask him out on a date then become his girlfriend make him want you just don't be a slut about it... When the time comes you tell him you love him keep it inside or else you might just scare him off but you gotta get him beofre some one else does or you'll be heartbroken try it and e-mail me and tell me what he says. Maybe I can give you some advice as the days go by.
2006-11-05 09:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the first point that has to be addressed is that maybe you should rethink your choice if, especially, at this point, you have to be concerned with "Skaring" him away. Remember YOU are somebody and YOU are somthing else worthy of being and surely is wanted And that YOU are THE PRIZE . I said that to say this : A MAN chooses his mate; not the other way around. When its done the wrong way ... there are always problems. Check the records. Look towards the MEN that choose YOU ... they are there just stop and look at them
2006-11-05 10:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Liz K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "skar" him away, lol, he unfortunatly is either or both, not ready for a relationship with you or doesn't share your feelings.
2006-11-05 09:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way of course is to tell the guy. Lets face it men r dense I know I am one. But another way is to show him. You know the old saying its the little things that kill. Well its also the little things that show someone u care.
2006-11-05 09:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Vinny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you love him ther is no other way t show it but by doing something that he knows you wouldnt do for anybody but him because you love him. but if telling him you love him scares him then **** him he is imature but if you think its to soon to tell him tell himt hat you like him alot and care about him very much and could see yourself loving him one day.
2006-11-05 09:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you in a relationship? if not just talk with him a bit and flirt a little, to let him know you are interested.
2006-11-05 09:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him so by using indirect comments like "You've been on my mind all weekend."
2006-11-05 09:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dunno throw a spell or something..lol u cant make someone fall in love
2006-11-05 09:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by chatter_chipmunk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋