I have a huge thing for this guy and he knows it too,he teases me by showing pics of himself looking v.hot,and and says things he knows will get me going(so to speak!)and then starts acting cool!And backs off,whats that about?? and If I say for instance,that id like a guy about the house ,to feel safer,he will say something like' i dont think id be much good' or 'i dont think you would want me moving in' when i haven't even asked 'him'. he also says stuff like 'if we were married'yet when i said that marriage scares me,he will say' oh yeah,and me??any opinions welcome,thanx guys**
2006-11-05 09:44:29 · 19 answers · asked by pinkydinkydoo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to be fair women play just as much infact we are better at it then them.
2006-11-05 09:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That`s not game-playing it`s just you being insecure - he`s just engaging in harmless banter ,pseudo-flirting if you will.Perhaps he doesn`t fancy you as much as you do him.
If men play games it`s simply because in games there are less rules - women come with too many!! LOL
2006-11-05 19:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it online? if so, does he knw wot u look like? i hope so coz everything changes after he sees what u actually look like and what ever you do, dont send ur pict coz its risky coz then he might be thinking of u in some way and then u turn out to be sum1 he never dared looked at for dating and then he will shut off and not wanna talk to u or make excuses. happened to me. im guessing its online. bet he talking to million other girls at the same time. how do we knw if they lying or serious about it. its s h i t.
2006-11-05 18:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just all part of the courtship dance, innit?! If things get serious, you both need to stop beating around the bush and do some straight talking about how you really feel about each other.
2006-11-05 17:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by Just_wondering 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
becuase men like to act big and tough so they think that u beleive that they are in control but i say beat him at his own game and act cool when he's up 4 stuff so he gets the message
2006-11-05 18:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by amyjaney 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A ,man that is scared of commitment it soudns like. Maybe hes had bad experiances in relationships. Or maybe he just wants sex.
Why not ask him seriously if hes interested in you. Instead of beating around the bush.
Before he is sending you hot pics of himself he definately likes you, but you need to find out if its just for your body.
2006-11-05 17:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Martin F 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like he has low self-esteem and needs reminders of how good he is. But also he wants to portray the bad boy image. Good luck with this one!
2006-11-05 17:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys play games for the same reasons girls play games. It is all about power.
2006-11-05 17:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Your Best Fiend 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Guys don't play games.
Projectin your female behaviour such as mind-games onto a guy isn't going to help you understand him.
We just don't work that way.
2006-11-05 17:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well he has the same huge thing for you, but he can't make up his mind. he is not playing with you because if he is he will take u for granted.
2006-11-05 18:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Moe A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋