me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now.....but latly he has been canceling our dates...i havnt seen him 4 a while and i dont know what to do....
Is he cheating?????
should i dump him??/
how would i dump him???
2006-11-05 09:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think you should dump him. Ask him whats going on first. Let him know you miss him. Maybe he's just busy. But if you find out hes cheating DUMP HIM. becuase it would be unfair for you to be loyal and him to cheat.
2006-11-05 09:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by ~~Can't stop loving him~~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first things first. Does he tell u y he's cancelling or y he isn't comin around? If not,u should call him and find out what's going on. Maybe he's jus busy or something but in my opinion,if he's not making the time or d effort for u,it could mean that he's cheating on you. But don't jump to any conclusions yet,cuz u are not sure. However,if u happen to find out that he's been cheatin, then break it off. Atleast u've only been with him 2 mths..U sound like a nice girl so if it doesn't work out, jus move on. I'm sure u'll find someone who will treat u better. Well goodluck,take care :)
2006-11-05 18:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Miss V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication first! :-) If you still like him, you should try to find out what he's doing... ask him why, and tell him you are confused. If you don't like him, or if he can't give a good reason for the cancelling of the dates, then try to find out, or just dump him. If you plan to dump him, talk to him face-to-face; nothing's worse than a text message, or a phone call. Just tell him you're not sure if anything will work out since he seems to be avoiding you--that you can't deal with a boyfriend who isn't there for you. But make sure you listen to your heart... don't be too impulsive, but don't sit back and wait too long, either. Have you tried talking to him online? Try it... if not, hunt him down! (lol) But make sure you find him some way, somehow... and talk!!! Good luck!!!
2006-11-05 17:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. Actions speak louder than words sweety. He might not be cheating on you but if he just started doing this something has to be going on to make him act that way. I say tho if you talk to him and still aren't staisfied dump him. You can find someone who won't cancel your dates
2006-11-05 17:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing the field. Lucky for you its only been two months and you can just move around and find someone that deserves you. Dont waste any more time. Wheter he is cheating or not his behavior says it all. And if someone shows you who they are believe it.
2006-11-05 17:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by bj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First ask him if something is going on or if he just doesn't want to be with you and if he hesitates dump his behind if a guy wants to be with you he won't hesitate to answer you that he still wants to be with you.
2006-11-05 17:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by debuton2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES HE PROBABLY IS CHEATING ON YOU WALK UP TO HIM AND SAY ITS OVER THEN TURN AROUND AND WALK AWEAY WITH YOUR HEAD HELD HIGH YOUR BETTER THAN THAT YOU DONT NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT DOESNT RESPECT YOU ENOUGH TO TELL YOU WHY HES CANCELING DATES ETC GOOD LUCK GOD BLESS :)
2006-11-05 17:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he is cancelling on you. If he doesn't answer, decide if you are worth more than what he is offering you. My guess is you deserve to be treated better than you are if you are on yahoo asking for answers.
2006-11-05 17:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by sassiecassie76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested in you anymore.
You make the first move and dump him. Now!
2006-11-05 17:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Calculus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
2006-11-05 17:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋