just ask them not to say stuff like that around you, and explain that you find him attractive, so you would appreciate it if they would keep thier opinions on this issue to themselves. I know how you feel hon, sometimes girls can be so judgemental about a person even when they are really sweet people!! Good Luck, and make sure not to lose your temper with them! :)
2006-11-05 09:34:09
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answered by jemm4president 3
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If you're dating him, then you need to put them in their place. If they are friends of yours, then they need to respect your choice in a mate and be respectful to him.
I had to do this once...it wasn't a hot or not issue, it was something else. She was rather mean to him in public and I had to be a little passive aggressive with her--aka joked around about her need to be more respectful of my date. She caught the hint and was nice ever since.
If you are not dating him but want to, well, I'd just ignore them until it becomes an issue (i.e. you start dating). You don't want to cause friction over nothing. Everyone has a right to an opinion I guess (although that is kind of negative).
2006-11-05 09:37:40
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answered by Barbara 6
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dont listen to baby because if someone doesnt like someone at least a little bit they will say theyre ugly so dont listen to them so tell your friends to bug off and if they are real friends they will tell you to go for it and ask him out unless they know something really bad about him that you dont but still they should tell you if they do so go for it with or without the support of your friends hope this helps
2006-11-05 09:38:01
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answered by angel 3
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you don't need to tell your friends off, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and everyone finds different people attractive. Your the one that thinks hes hot, so i wouldnt even worry about what anyone else thinks. He could be the ugliest guy in the world, but hes ur guy and that makes him hot to you!
2006-11-05 09:33:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell them to mind their own damn business. Who cares if other people think hes ugly as long as YOU find him hot? Stop caring so much about what people think, if they cant accept you liking him, then they are apparently not very good friends! Tell them to go to hell, stop worrying about what he looks like, your the one who likes him and thats all that matters! Good luck!
2006-11-05 09:34:52
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answered by Ricki M 3
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You have some rude friends. I've had that happen to me but I don't think some of others choices are all that either. It's different for everyone.
If someone is that ignorant just say "Good thing your not dating him then" and hopefully they'll get the hint.
2006-11-05 09:34:27
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answered by Anonymous
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U DONT! im in dat situation right now, sorta, not really, a lil bit.
anyway - U DONT unless its somebody U CAN TRUST! mi freinds arent all trustworthy. If they're the tipe dat make fun of u, but joke - then, DON T TELL THEM
2006-11-05 09:32:45
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answered by 12 yr old boi crazzi gurl 2
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First of all your dating him ...so who cares what your friends think about how HOT he is...If your fine with it then that's all the matters.. Be more worried if they think he's a jerk.. Just tell them if they don't have anything good to say about YOUR man you don't want to hear it!
2006-11-05 09:49:53
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answered by xcura 3
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lol you have the same problem as me, i have an ex that i think his so hot and my friends are always talking about him and saying his ugly, i just say WHAT EVER his hot....... or forget you if your talking about my ex like that then i dont think i wont to hang around with you or FORGET YOU
2006-11-05 09:36:31
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answered by Tonya Sizemore 2
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just tell them and then go on a date with him everyone has different tastes in men and if they were true Friends they would not laugh or take the mick
2006-11-05 09:34:36
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answered by Anonymous
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