HELP- what is the best way to let a guy know how you feel? I'm so screwed!?

Question

okay, I recently met this guy through a friend who I really really like. The problem is, I have never told a guy that I'm into him- usually I wait for the guy to tell me how he feels. In other words, guys usually ask me out- I don't ask out guys. This time I'm not sure whether he's into me (we did flirt a lot), but I don't know what do next- he's coming to an event that my friend is organising in a few weeks. Please everyone, help me- tell me what i should do!!! Should I tell him how i feel or what? Only serious suggestions please- tell me what you did when you were in this situation or what you would do. Thanks!!! :)

Answer 1

Perfect! You know that you'll be seeing him at the event - walk up to him with a big smile on your face and say: "It's so great to see you again!" You'll probably start up the flirting again and he'll probably ask you out. But if he doesn't, don't be afraid to make the first move. Hand him your card and say: "I'd love to get together sometime. Give me a call!" It's that easy.

Answer 2

Hi. You do not always have to tell a guy how you feel with words. He can feel it with Body language. Don't be too easy to get. Guys don't generally like that. Drop a few hints and then back off. Wait for him to respond and then progress slowly and let him make the first move. Guys like to be in control, but don't be a pushover. Let him respect you. Any more advice, Skype me, Simon Palmer from England. Good luck-

Answer 3

The guy knows how you feel.

If you were really into him, guys pick up on that very easily unless hes a total nerd. IF you flirted as much as you say then he knows.

If you come on to him, then hes going to know hes in charge and you probably end up as another trophy.

FLirt some more the next time then leave him alone and find another guy to talk to , if hes likes you hes going to find a way to barge into the conversation and he'll take the lead if that doesnt work then forget it.

Answer 4

As a guy, if you play hard to get, that is typically a turn off. If I have to work to get your attention, im going to bail in a hurry. These "Rules" women need to go away.

Ask him to do something and feel it out, so to speak. If you are not comfortable being that forward, then spend more time with him and see what happens. Eventually you will either have to take a risk and ask him or he will ask you out. Most guys will say yes when asked, so you would have less to lose than we guys do.

Answer 5

I worked with her. I knew her schedule and we both had a Tuesday off, so I walked up to her Monday night and said that I didn't work (tomorrow) and I wanted to see if she'd go out with me, "like on a date. Interested?" She said yes. We actually went out later that same night for a couple of drinks.

Answer 6

take him aside in an empty room, back him into a wall, then look at him straight in the eyes and tell him.

(backing him into a wall just keeps him from doing something loud and obnoxious--its not meant as a come on)

or conversely, wait until he gets in front of a couch, push him onto it, and sit on his lap..."oh im sorry" try getting up.
if he says no its allright, You Win.

Answer 7

i think that u should just wait and see what will happen at the event and after then u should probably tell him how u fill

Answer 8

You should tell him how you feel. Even if he's not into you he'll be plenty flattered that you're into him and will treat you well in any case. What have you got to lose?

Answer 9

don't beat around the bush. just tell him you have a crush on him. you don't want to wait until you get to know him & find yourself in the friend zone nursing a crush.

Answer 10

2 things. 1. asking the general public for things like this can be BAD. and 2 find him somewhere by himself and tell him be honest extremely honest HOPEFULLY he will like your honesty.