Why do men keep treating me like an f'ing idiot?

Question

Seems like most of you (bar a genuine few) on here are set on abusing me for asking this question....and you're calling me an idiot? Pot and Kettle come to mind. It certainly isn't me with the issues when it's you lot slating a complete stranger

Answer 1

I dont know why everyone is being so mean to you, you must not have had many female answerers or they are just traitors. We all feel like this at some time or another hun, some men just think they can do it and get away with it. Even if you are the strongest person you know, a nasty man can always knock you down. Just remember that some women can be like this too, and not all the men that will meet in your life will treat you like this. Things do get better. Hope this helped xxxxxxxxxx

Answer 2

You know what, I have been asking myself the same f eckin question all day! In fact, it's the wrong f eckin question. What we should be askin is why the f eck we put up with some assshole who isn't fit to lick our..(well insert whatever u like here folks) treating us like he is some godddamned King!!!! I think I just got a little complacent somewhere and let my boundaries slip, but NOT ANY MORE!!!!! He is gonna be so dumped. I dont care if I have to go to Xmas parties alone. I will not put up with it any more! Men are SHI TS! So lets just do without.

Answer 3

Maybe you are acting like one, not enough detail in your question really. Likely you are with the wrong type of men, they maybe not treating you like an idiot but you believe they are.

Personally I like your feisty attitude but, I think you are being a bit rude to those that have bothered to reply and also taking it just a bit too seriously.

Good luck finding Mr Right, I sure there is one somewhere.

Answer 4

All i can say is this,

Put your foot down, Do not allow men to treat you like an idiot! Be confident in who you are! Be careful with who you hang out with or go out with! Give things alot of thought before you dive into a situation! Thought plays a big factor in life! Its one thing that we all should Cherish!

Answer 5

Ask your self the following questions:

Do I let people treat me like an idiot?
Do I act like an idiot?
Am I hanging around the wrong people?

Answer these then make the appropriate changes,.

Answer 6

People will try to do bad things if they think they can get away with it. Maybe you naturally give an impression that you can be treated like an idiot.

Answer 7

Because you let them! Don't put up with there S@*# if you don't want to. You are your own women don't let anyone walk over you. Stop being soft and play hard sometimes maybe they'll take you a lil more serious.

Answer 8

Because you allow them some how, I think you have to change something, maybe you are giving a wrong information, body language. Maybe all is because they are f***ing idiots and not you

Answer 9

hi gemma! don't listen to what some ppl are saying on here- you're not an idiot, the truth is SOME guys LOVE being cleverer than girls..the more stupid the better so they can exert their macho know-it-all-ism! they clearly want to put you down because they feel threatened. You gotta be more picky about who u choose to hang out with..there are a lot of clever guys out there who love to have intelligent conversation with women, good luck! (can i have 10 points please?)

Answer 10

Well since you didn't give me much information to go on here and try to help, I'll say it's because you act like an f'ing idiot.