My younger brother's friend Brian loves talking about people peeing. Like a month or month and a half ago he started asking me how I pee and is it hard for girls to pee standing up. I was uncomfertable about talking about that stuff with him but I didn't tell him that I was uncomfertable. So we were talking about peeing and then somehow we ended up talkning about girls and their periods. He was asking me about mine and I told him. Then we were talking about using tampons. I told him that I didn;t know how to use them. So he was like telling me how to use them and he printed something out that explains how to use them. He really wanted me to use tampons. I tried using it but it was a litle confuusing to me. So he suggested comming in the bathroom with me and showing me how to use it. I said no of course because no wayam I going to let a boy see me without pants on and showing me how to use a tampon. I don't have enough room to finish my story so I'll say it in the detail thingy.
2006-11-05 09:15:17 · 15 answers · asked by Yeau B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So well I said I'd try using a tampon again. I told him that I finally got it (I really didn't though and I don't care. Using a tampon isn't that improtant to me right now.) Then Brian started telling me all this stuff he said I should know about using tampons. It made me really uncomfertable. I didn't like him talking about that stuff with him. It felt like he was pressuring me to listen to him about that stuff. And in a way it made me feel like that someday he is going to have sex with me even if I tell him that I don't want to. Today at church he came up to me and started asking me about my period again in front of people (He didn't exactly use the word period but the way he was talking I could tell that he ment that). He said that next week when he comes over to paly with my brother he wants to talk more about my period. I don't want to talk to him about it anymore. I don't know how to tell him and get him to listen that I don't want to talk about that anymore. What should I do?
2006-11-05 09:22:04 · update #1
Brian is 14 and I am 16.
2006-11-05 09:22:29 · update #2
my first question would be how old is this boy because he knows that much information about that topc. I know some children that have been sexually abused have a unhealty knowlegde and facination with things of a sexual nature. I have also known kids with forms of autism to learn and be obsessed with different functions of the body. Just tell him that the conversation is making you a little uncomfortable and you would rather no talk about it.
2006-11-05 09:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot stress how important it is for you to stay away from Brian. You are right to feel uncomfortable talking about your personal and private affairs with this boy.
When I was 13, I had a similar situation. There was a boy a little older than I that constantly asked questions about my period and asked if I had been to the OBGYN yet. I thought it was very weird for him to ask me such things, but he wouldn't let up and it seemed like he knew way to much about the sunject of women's bodies and what goes on down there. Long story short, after awhile he tried to touch me inappropriately. I knew something was wrong so I got away from him. I wound up telling my brother and staying far away from that boy.
Please don't let your situation get to that point.
2006-11-05 09:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by kewlkat103 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are you and how old is this boy and second of all tampons are easy to use after a little while go to http://beinggirl.com/ so they will help you with the tampon thing and next time he trys talking to you in a way that make you feel uncomfterble then tell him and leave or if you dont want to be rude then just say you need to go do something.
2006-11-05 09:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by lizzy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Brian has some serious problems. Do not talk to him about anything that makes you uncomfortable ever again. He may be curious about girls and female anatomy, but talking to you about tampons and giving you info about them is going way too far. Offering to show you how to use it is just plain sick. If he keeps bothering you, tell your parents immediately. This kid may need professional help.
2006-11-05 09:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by just me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, depending on how old the kid is ( like 6-10) then don't worry about it. However, not many children know how to use a computer. If this person is over the age that you are over, then I would tell an adult A.S.A.P!!! Avoid having something happen that you do not want to.
2006-11-05 09:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell Brian that if he doesn't stop talking about that stuff with you then tell him that you are going to tell the authorities that he is harassing you. He shouldn't be doing it. Tell your parents and you might want to tell his parents too (or at least that he is trying to talk about inappropriate things with you).
2006-11-05 09:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all that sexual harrassment and you should tell a parent or an older person about what this boy is asking you . I would do it immediately.
2006-11-05 10:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by debuton2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell him that it is none of his business. That situation is not normal. If you can't do it, then tell your Mom about this and have her talk to him or his parents.
2006-11-05 09:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
brian is a little pervert with no social skills who has a woody on for you tell him to get lost, and tell your parents.....
2006-11-05 09:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by douglas w 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like sexual harassment to me, you should tell him not to talk to you anymore.
2006-11-05 09:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋