How can I tell a girl who is in a relationship that I like her?????
Or is it best that I wait untill she breaks up with him? She is 15 and hes a bit older they litterally just got together (a coulpe of days). I like her and I think I should tell her, but I have known her 2 years and we are best friends. Should I tell her? When and how? Specifically, how, becuase I need a way that wont make things weird between us.
2006-11-05 09:10:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a gentleman and tell her your feeling so she know how you feel even now she's dating someone else.
Even she broke up the date with this guy doen't mean she will be date with you maybe she will date someone else.That's why is important to let her know.
Be prepare for rejection also at least you stil her friend.
As long they not married yet you stil have chance so use it.
Unless you scare of competition.
That's a chalenge for you.
So fight for her love or forget about her!
And just close this internet and do some action now!!
What you waiting for?
2006-11-05 09:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell if a girl is in a relationship if she hangs out with a boy very often that isn't u. usually younger women and older guy relationships don't work out so right now your chances are pretty good. u should definetly tell her just make sure to tell her in the right moment. okay this is how u tell her. first u start a normal conversation like nothing then u say softly i need to tell u something. u spill the beans make sure not to take anything personally remember this because she might pull this off "i like u and everything but only as a friend" hope everything goes well .
2006-11-05 09:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by sPuNkY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First - the moment you let her know how you feel, if shes doesnt feel the same its going to get weird- so you need t figure out if shes into you the same way - if she isnt then maybe just keep quiet and enjoy the friendship. If she is then ....
So is she interested, you know her maybe shes given some hints, she should have in 2 years.
does she hold your hand, get close to you, kiss on the cheek or something, any form of close contact is a positive, should be there if youve known her for 2 years and there is any interest.
If there is then just tell her, take her somewhere she likes to go, see a film ,etc and tell her how you feel
2006-11-05 09:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Deep Water 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should simply be her good friend during the time she is with him because based on experience it highly unlikely she will be marrying him and if not you probably won't have to wait too incredibly long for an opportunity to try wooing her if it's meant to be it will happen just be patient you've waited two years all ready it won't hurt to wait a while longer and to act at this point could be very hurt full and have negative consequences
good luck
2006-11-05 09:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by whizbang 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i know what your saying because i have the same problem. But you should tell her as soon a possible because not only will you feall that you did all you could but also she will know how you feal. Because knowing someone for two years she might have been waiting for you to ask her out. But on the other hand she might say that your to much of a friend.
2006-11-05 09:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd wait if I were you. If she's just 15, you *know* they're going to break up eventually. If you feel the same when they've broken up, go for it. But you could just be having a crush, and trust me, if that's the case it isn't worth taking the chance of ruining a friendship with someone you care about.
2006-11-05 09:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should mention how you feel about her to her sometime but either do it now before this thing with the other guy might become bigger or wait until that guy and her are finished .
best friends is a great way to start out and even better if you manage to become more then friends but stay best friends .
2006-11-05 09:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would wait until they break up. But there's opportunities in between, like if he's cheating on her, or abusive. If that happens be the hero. If not, then you'll have to wait. When your 15 it doesn't last long and if it does, you'll find someone knew. She could always be making you jealous but if not you don't wanna spoil it. Just wait it out-
2006-11-05 09:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by WeDnEsDaY 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd wait if i were you... If you told her now, it would make things weird between the two of you especially if you are best friends. Don't try to ruin their relationship but just wait for them to break up.. good luck
2006-11-05 09:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey,
If i were you, I would wait for a while! Let her enjoy what she has with this other guy. Do not put her in a position right now. Give it some time and alot of thought! Its best that you do not tell her now while she is with this other guy, As it might ruin things between them and yourself! You do not want that to happen.
My best advice to you, Hold on, Give time and alot of thought!
2006-11-05 09:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by krazy_k006 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋