ok listen... im 17 years old and i feel like i am ready to lose my virginity but the problem is i dont know what to do.. i mean every time my boyfriend touch me i push him back, when he trys to kiss me i move around or when ever he trys to feel on me i move....its not that i dont want him to touch me because i do.... i dont know whats wrong with me!!!
2006-11-05 08:55:11 · 15 answers · asked by yates1stlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you're just nervous because you've never been in the situation before where you have sex. Just relax. If you want to have sex with the guy and it feels good, then don't pull away, just go with it and enjoy it and let things happen. But only if you REALLY want to have sex. There's nothing wrong with you just because you pull away...that's just a sign of nervousness.
J
2006-11-05 08:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in such a big hurry to have sex. You're still young and there will be many opportunities to get involved with someone when you are truly ready. Right now just accept your personal reality as a virgin and enjoy your life. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you!!!
2006-11-05 17:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your just afraid of what he might think. Like wheather your prude or not. But i would stop moveing away because he might think that you don't like him anymore. Also if you feal like your ready to loose your virginity then start out slow and move into it. Start the night with some kisses, him grabbing you boobs, and you giving him bj. Then slowly move into sex. Just make sure you use a condom and or birth control pills.
2006-11-05 17:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent the movie "The Wood" and "40 year old virgin". Form your own opinion. Personally I would tell you to wait until you are married because if he is in for the goods only(sex), you will be dissappointed. You will feel useless and dirty. Oh yeah, go to the store and purchase :The dirt on sex" by Justin Lookadoo.
2006-11-05 17:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun for as much as u think u ARE ready, your probably not yet.
heaps of things can do that to you.... not being in the right place, being afraid of getting caught, the insucrity of not knowing what to do.... my suggestion is to go away somewhere if your b/f so you guys are totally alone and see how it goes. you have to be relaxed 100%.... if it doesn't happen then, it means u still have to give it time. no matter when u do it, you'll be afraid to some degree.
good luck.
2006-11-05 17:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok society has really messed up this world. Your only 17 you don't need to have sex. you should wait until your married anywayz. obvouislly your not "ready" if your pushing him off of u when he is only kissing or feeling.
2006-11-05 17:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to what your saying and you will find your answer.You are pushing away from him because you're not 100% sure its time yet.The best thing to do is wait and just let it happen.Its so easy but sometimes very confusing.
2006-11-05 17:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is telling you that your not ready, even if your mind is saying how you are ready and you want it. Jsut give it some time, dont rush things, when your really ready, you will be able to tell . =)
2006-11-05 16:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are nevous. let him get to know you if you get my gist. I am a bit younger than you and lost it to my bf of three yrs. I was nervous but he was really sweet about it. I am sure ur guy understands.
2006-11-05 17:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur instincts r telling u that u r not ready
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dont push ur self to do something that ur body doesnt want to happen
2006-11-05 17:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋