Why would you molest a girl?? Do you not realize how hard it is on her relationships with others?? Whay would you do this??
If this happened to ur gf, what would you do to help her?? Would you blame and leave her or stick with her and help her thru thick and thin?? Even if it meant no sex 4 a while??
2006-11-05 08:51:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first off i cant really think of a why a guy would actually do that unless somehting is just seriosly wrong. As far as what i would do, i would definatly stick with my girlfriend through it and try and help her, even if it ment no sex, even for quiet a while. As to how to help her im not sure, my onl suggestion for that would try to just be intamite with her, just kinda cuddle with her and such, but never take it any farther unless she decides it so. I had a friend who had problems with her step father, we were just friends but i was able to help her just by being close to her. Giving her hugs when i saw her and holding her if we were talking. IMO the idea in it all is that you need to remind them that not all men are going to do that and that they can feel safe being touched by another.
To add though if i were to stay and help my GF you would not be able to have me within 50 feet of the guilty individual...........Hell would seem like a vacation after i got threw with him.
2006-11-05 09:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Tyler_Durden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't molest a girl....
My ex g/f was molested as a kid and believe me i know how hard it is for her... i had to live with it.
I helped her thru it and we both went to councelling and i would still be with her today if she didnt leave me two weeks ago.
I personally believe that she needed more help because it effected her everyday personality. What she done was she put that painful experiance she went thru, in the back f her mind so she didn't hav to feel the pain, and as a result, she did that with everything in life - if we would have a disagreement she would rather forget about it and put it in that part of her mind that held all the other painful things. But 2 weeks ago she exploded and everything came out and i offered to be with her thru it but she said she needs to do this on her own.
Its as painful for me as it is for her because i love her soo much, and the asshole that did this to her has destroyed both our lives.
i'll always love her.
2006-11-05 17:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, a guy molests a girl because he is too low of a person to find a relationship and prays on others to make him feel good and like a man that he would never be
2006-11-05 16:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by scottb03gt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats the difference between boys and men... I am a man, therefore I would not do that to any girl! Any guy that does belongs in prison!
2006-11-05 16:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Pezzie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-05 16:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋