ok well, me and this guy were dating for over a year, and i truly love him, honestly i kno i did, and still do, but were not togother anymore. we broke up about month ago. but less than a week after we broke up, him and my BESTFRIEND started to serously talk about dating (and my bestfriend already has a boyfriend of 2 1/2 years). sometime last year, her and my boyfriend kissed, (theyv had feelings for eachother for a while), and after that she made a prmose to me that she would never do that to me ever again. but now they are talking about dating. (and my ex and me both still love eachother, and arent over, just kinda a break). they were both very serous, and my bestfriend was about to break up w/ her current boyfriend for my ex. i was/ am serously hurt by this, and it is absolutely killing me inside that she would do this to me. should i ever talk to her again??
2006-11-05 08:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by hello12345678910 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I wouldnt... That is the worse thing a friend can do to another friend... Needless to say I wouldnt speak with him either because he obviously doesnt know what he wants out of life either. He is playing you two against each other and that sucks but she is allowing that to happen... So I think it is best that you cut the two of them out of your life all together... Beleive me I had a similar expereince when I was in high school with my best friend and now I mean it sucks but we as adults now barely even speak but you never mess with a friends man thats disrespect....
2006-11-05 08:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by faithypoohf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cut your losses and move on...if your b/f really loved you why did you separate? and why would he be looking at other woman?
Your best friend obviously isnt your best friend...there is kind of an unspoken rule about girlfriends dating best friends ex's...shes cheated on her b/f she will cheat on your ex aswell...
I personally wouldnt have anything to do with either of them again...find a guy who treats you like the princess you are...dont settle for second best...because your not second best.
2006-11-05 16:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats totally up to you, but me Id kick her *** and never speak to her again but thats just me. Id be just as hurt as you are. Id forgive her but never forget never bring your boyfriend around ur girlfriends. They are your relationships biggest threat (outside of his mom). But tell her how you feel if she doesnt break up with him then your friendship is over. She was never a true friend.
2006-11-05 16:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by wynsda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You people need to grow up and get a clue about who "your boyfriend" is. If a guy is interested in other people, he's not your friggin' boyfriend. What part of this don't you understand. Now, if he/she is more interested in one of your friends (instead of you) you need to back off and get over it. You can't just claim a person's life just because you like them. They have to like you equally or it's not your boy/girlfriend...PERIOD!!!!!
Now do you get it?
2006-11-05 16:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well what else you can do ! When you are unable to keep tied your one and only b/f with you.You cannot hold a torch to light anothers path without brightening your own.
2006-11-05 16:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out with your best friend's boy friend
2006-11-05 16:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not talk to either one of them again.
2006-11-05 16:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them both go and move on ...Find some other friends and b/f...Good luck to you!
2006-11-05 16:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋