so my gf broke up with me in march and started dating this other guy like 2 weeks later after a 2 yr relationship! I tried to get her back the first two months then i went NC . .. . ever since the beginning of july . . shes either texted, called, left a voicemail or sent and email atleast once every 2-3 weeks. . . . sometimes 2-3 times a week . . i have not answered in almost 5 months and she still is doing it . .. what does she want? and does this sound a little stalkerish to you? . . . she also is still with the guy and ive told her we cant be friends. . . .also the reason we broke up according to her was she wanted to date around and see what out there . . .it wasnt for anything bad . . . so what do u think is going on?
2006-11-05 08:15:38 · 14 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why are you flipping the script ?
one minute your the rebound guy , now you are the guy being stalked.
i can see you are trying to get both sides of the same answer using the same girl in your drama playing both men.
2006-11-05 09:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she did you a favor when she broke up with you. You are doing the right thing by not communicating with her anymore. Some girls like to play games and base their worthiness on how many guys they can keep on the hook. She needs to grow up and it is better if it isn't at your expense.
2006-11-05 16:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by joandi_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay away from her, seems that she can't get over the fact that you moved on and it bothers her that you didn't get all suicidal over her, it's just an ego thing with her, you need to just keep going an don't look back. Good luck
2006-11-05 16:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by neganelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block Her email,Put her cell on the call to get her cell blocked and Cut communications all together
2006-11-05 16:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by denverbroncos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a little nuts and like a game player. I would block her e-mail and phone number.
2006-11-05 16:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She broke up with you cause she needed time and now that she doenst have you she finally realizes that what she was looking for was what she already had.
2006-11-05 16:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by wynsda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right to cut off communication with this wishy washy girl.
2006-11-05 16:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same situation as mine..lol.. she really loves you, and probably cant forget the 2 years she has spent with you..she loves you badly that why she just wants to be in touch with you in anyway...
2006-11-05 16:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by crazygirrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's hoping to get you back when things don't go well elsewhere. don't do it. stay off of her rollercoaster. too much drama. you don't sound unhappy so move on.
2006-11-05 16:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... she may just want to be friends with you? She may want to find out if you're missing her. She may want you back. Then, she may even be confused.
2006-11-05 16:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jou-Jou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋