i need some advice?

Question

im not a virgin, but im still not that good in bed, i just lay there and let him have his way with me. what should i do?

Answer 1

Certainly not that.
If you just let him have his way with you it doesn't sound to me that you have much pleasure. Having good sex means that it must be good for both, that both do enjoy each other, each others body, each others movements.

You didn't write your age, not to be a virgin is nowadays possible already with 10 to 12... If you're actually still very young, it might be your body telling you to wait. Should that be the case, tell your bf that you prefer for the moment being gently touched.

If you're older, you should urgently talk about your problems with your bf. He too will profit in the end. Read together a book about various positions, best one that explains the advantages and disadvantages of each position, so you don't have to try out what you won't like anyway. Perhaps you prefer first to talk with another woman of about your age. That depends on the type of your personality.

Answer 2

girl you need to move with ur man.. get in to motion with him.. go to barnes and noble and look at a book with different sexual positions it will teach you what to do and what feels good to a man.. honey you cant lay on ur back like that forever.. or else guys will start calling you a flat backer

Answer 3

how old r u if ur younger than 16 then why the frick r u having sex!!!! if u really r as bad as u say maybe get some advice from a friend! tehen see how it goes!
GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

WELL IF THIS IS SO THEN YOU MIGHT NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT CAN MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD ENOUGH TO MOVE, LIKE TRYING ORAL SEX ON YOU AND FOREPLAY AND A SLOW PACE.

Answer 5

Gee It sure sounds like you are enjoying sex hmmmm? (not) How about getting into it a bit? Enjoy, be creative, please him that will please yourself. To just lay there? He could get an inflatable doll for that.