what should i tell her! ps. she is 11
2006-11-05 07:45:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
ps. this is my oldest daughter(16)'s username
2006-11-05 07:54:05 · update #1
ANSWER HER honestly. Then after you guys talk, give yourself a pat on the back, you have done a great parenting job. I talk to my boys all the time, just casually we talk about sex, drugs, etc. My youngest is also 11 and he gets involved too. They are only ours for a short time, and it is our #1 job to teach them all we can about everything we can. This is important to how he/she will function in society as an adult.
2006-11-05 07:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by yonksbutterfly4 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good!
Your daughter is on her way to good communtication skills with you!. Her asking questions about sexually at her age is perfect!. (Now) Start off by asking her where did she here the phrase?. Does she want to know the real answer,or is she just curious? Because she's your daughter,it should be very easy for you to talk to her. Sit down,put your arms around her, and tell her what you know,in a sense that SHE can comprehend. If you have any good books around the house,that explains Reproduction and or Sexuality,then now is the time to look over the books with her. Point to the pictures,as you go along. When your session is over,give her a big hug,and a kiss and reassure her,that whatever she needs to know,that she can always talk to you about ANYTHING,that you will listen,and answer to the best of your ability. (Good Luck)
2006-11-05 16:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the TRUTH! If u don't when she does learn what it's all about you will be the last person she will confide in, coz she will not trust u. Also the truth will probably have the effect of putting her of the idea of sex for another good few years, which is a bonus for u. good luck. x
2006-11-05 15:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a book about STD's and sit down and talk with her. She's old enough to know about these things. My daughter is 11 and we've already talked.
Better for her to hear it from you than to get misinformation from friends.
2006-11-05 15:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell her. You should also at the same time tell her about love, boys, sex and everything inbetween. She is old enough to understand. She is at the age that she needs to know, the more she is educated about it now the more positive decisions she will make later on in life.
2006-11-05 18:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her the truth. now having said that. have you had a conversation with her about sex., if not then this the time to start. you having a 16yr. old daughter may be some influence on her.because children do over our conversations when we are not aware that they are listening
2006-11-05 17:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by lo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her what it is, how you can get them and how to prevent them. Be direct, keep it simple, answer any other questions she has during the discussion and then praise her for coming to you with her questions, You should be proud that your daughter was comfortable enough to come to you. Keep it up...it will serve you well as she gets older!
2006-11-05 15:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, you have to have an open relation ship with you're daughter .
2006-11-05 17:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by I Wont Tell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are the daughter, unless you are using her username. And if that's the case, an 11 year old shouldn't like guys and partying!
2006-11-05 15:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
tell her the truth you guys need to have a open relationship about that stuff the more you talk to he the more she will trust you and come to you when it really counts
2006-11-05 15:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by jen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋