he sees me in the hallways at school but doesn't talk to me. but i really like him, and he's cute. he hangs out with me at dances and school carnivals, but at school he acts like i'm not there. and should i because i never see barely necause he's in a grade higher than me. and he's shorter than me. but i almost love him. so should i?
2006-11-05 07:44:32 · 13 answers · asked by caley w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
wrong category.... try singles and dating
as for the guy ignoring you.... if he wont acknowledge you in a normal setting he is not worth your time.
2006-11-05 07:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling you should stop thinking about the guy and find someone else to date, have fun and not worry about! You are obviously very young so why settle with such a situation? Learn to demand what you are worth; if he is not attentive and caring and present enough, walk. And don't forget that if you settle for less once, you will always do the same. I know it needs courage but it's worth it; so don't waste your time! Good luck!
2006-11-05 15:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it depends on whether you think he loves you or not. If he hangs with you at dances and carnivals but not at school, do you think that's a relationship? Or... do you think he's using you just to say he has a younger girlfriend. The question isn't "Should you..." it actually should be "Can you..." because all of my friends who claimed to be "in love" and asked me if they should break up with him, I usually said yes, because he was a jerk. But they were TO in love with the guy, to even think about breaking up with you. Do you have it in your heart to?
2006-11-05 15:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by WeDnEsDaY 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think that you should ask him w he doesnt actg like you guys are together in the hall and if he is ashamed of you. but if he says that he doesbt want every body in your busniess then tell him that sometime you want to be showed some afection becasue yall dont get to see each other alot. and if he doesnt and keep acting like your not ther break it off with him because obvisly hes hiding something .
2006-11-05 15:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm going through a long, nasty, expensive divorce to a man who has been abusing me for over 23 years...so my advice to any woman, young or otherwise is......if a man does not make you feel incredibly special as a person when he sees you or is with you, doesn't like/love you for exactly who you are, if he tries to get you to do something you don't want to do or be someone who you are not, if he gets angry at you for things you do or say, if he twists situations around and makes things look like your fault, if he is verbally or physically disrespectful or hurtful to you (including ignoring you), if he tends to blame others for what he does wrong...then please for your best interest in life respect your self by choosing not to be in a relationship with him. His behavior and attitude toward you will only get worse over time and will be harder for you to end the relationship. Discover who you are, know clearly what your values and beliefs are and only choose to be with individuals who cherish, encourage and support you for who you are and your goals you have for your life. It is someone's heart and attitudes and values that you should grow in love with... please don't make the mistake to fall in for someone who is just cute in appearance. Learn to be content and like and respect yourself, please don't rely on other people's opinions for your self- worth. To directly answer your question, yes you should break up with him if he isn't genuinely excited to see you at school and who ignores you--that to me is showing disrespect and you do not deserve someone like that.
2006-11-05 16:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by jlmo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he obviously doesnt love u because if he did and he saw u in the hallway, he would make the effort to at least say hi to u. dont waste your time on him. find someone who can say hi to u in the hallway.
2006-11-05 16:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey it can't be love .Maybe infatuation but not love . Love takes time and if he doesn't give you the time of day , move on ! There is a good guy out there for you!
2006-11-05 16:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well i think you should tell him, what you just told us. talk to him about it. maybe he doesnt realize that hes doing this to you. or maybe he knows he doing it, and talking to him might help him overcome why hes doing it, or help you to see that its not right. if you almost love him, then talk to him, then go from there. thats the first step. i hope it all turns out well. best of luck!! =]
<3steph.
2006-11-05 15:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by hello12345678910 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly it doesnt sound like hes as into you and you are into him, it might be for the best to just end it before your feelings really get hurt
2006-11-05 15:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Shorty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's obvious that he doesn't like you as much as you like him. You shouldn't be disrespected by any man, no matter what. Sorry girly.
2006-11-05 15:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sonia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋