My friend...anything more?

Question

One of my pretty good friends is awesome. Like seriously. he is fantastic. he plays football. he swims, he is into music, he is very into church he makes straight a's and he is hilarious. the perfct guy for me eh? but ive already dated him once before and thats how we became friends. it jsut got to weird so we both called it off...but i want him. badly and all of my other friends are also some of his greatest friends and they all say that we would be the most perfect couple. but thats the reason that we are friends...and its not a reason that we should date.and that it would be so akward for everyone if we both dated... and that they would not really apporve of it although they all know we would be perfect for eachother. i also have no classes with him so its really hard to talk to him. i only see him at lunch and we flirt and share food and everything i just can never really talk to him alone...any one have ANY advice. anything at all!?

Answer 1

i know it must be awful not seeing him as much as you like, but maybe it is a sign that it is not meant to be.
but ,hey that is just my opinion.
later chica..

Answer 2

"if it's meant to be...it's up to me"...thats what you should be telling yourself...if you aint in any of his classes then so what?...i'm sure you could talk to him at lunch and arrange to meet after school or something but not as in a date or anything just as a social thing...and he will defs says fine and go from there...who cares if his mates think this way. if he geneinly likes you then he will let you know;)

Answer 3

Pass him a note. Make it light and casual, inviting him to do something with just you. Sometimes they hide their real feelings too, fearing rejection. A written note is always soft and gentle and lets them think about it. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Sometimes friends are just meant to stay friends. Just be honest and let him know how you feel but dont push his feelings if he doesnt feel the same way.

Answer 5

tell him.