so my gf broke up with me in march and started dating this other guy like 2 weeks later after a 2 yr relationship! I tried to get her back the first two months then i went NC . .. . ever since the beginning of july . . shes either texted, called, left a voicemail or sent and email atleast once every 2-3 weeks. . . . sometimes 2-3 times a week . . i have not answered in almost 5 months and she still is doing it . .. what does she want? and does this sound a little stalkerish to you? . . . she also is still with the guy and ive told her we cant be friends. . . .also the reason we broke up according to her was she wanted to date around and see what out there . . .it wasnt for anything bad . . . so what do u think is going on?
2006-11-05 06:53:12 · 11 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wanted to test the waters and now she's seen that what she had was better so she wants you back. You have to let her know that you aren't the "fall-back-on" guy. You have your own life and to be able to fully live that life, you need for her to leave you alone, you aren't interested.
2006-11-05 07:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by tinucoker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she still has feelings for u ,and still want to experience the world so she has to make up her mind before she does anything else with her life and the same for u because why in the first place she broke up with u just to date other people it doesnt make any sense to me not saying anything bad but she wants more than one man to me that is what she want so move on with your life
2006-11-05 07:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by casia h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back with her for sure. sounds like she liked you then thought she could do better. then realized she coudln't. just keep not answering cause as soon as u do she will know you are getting all these messages and will never stop.
2006-11-05 07:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a new phone or something if it is bothering you. You could tell her to stop contacting you or you are going to get a restraining order-that should stop her. Why she is doing it? Who knows, maybe she's nuts.
2006-11-05 07:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget her. Do not answer her. eventually she will get the massage. she knows she messed up. Move on with your life!
2006-11-05 06:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just text her back and maybe she will stop. she maybe just wants to be friends still.
No one will forgive you (even if you didnt do anything wrong) if you dony forgive.
Karma dude.
Good luck
2006-11-05 06:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want her back and don't want her calling you then change your number.
if you want to try again then talk to her, maybe she misses you and wants to try again.
you won't know unless you talk to her
2006-11-05 06:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ya'll lost your spark
2006-11-05 06:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she misses your lovin'...... and want some more....
2006-11-05 06:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to leave you alone!!!!!
2006-11-05 06:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by rebeandphantom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋