me and my boyfriend broke up on halloween. we break up and get back together after about 5 hours all the time. my phone tells when someone is on another line and he was but he told me it was some guy so i went to his house and the phone rung he told me it was that guy again but i heard a girl. so i went to get it and he ran from me he swore it wasnt but i know it was i got the number and called it. the girl told me he owes her some money and thats all she wanted and he says he didnt cheat. but i mean dont u think its wierd that number JUST started coming up on his phone? it doesnt anymore. did he cheat? did he think we was over so he called someone else? whats going on!?!
2006-11-05 06:53:06 · 7 answers · asked by Allison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay,Okay.There is a lot of information here so I will try to be brief.First off, it sounds as though the relationship is lacking in maturity.First off, when people break up.They dont "break up all the time" and then get back togather 5 hours later.If it happened once or twice ok.But you said it happens all the time.That needs further examination.What are you guys fighting about? Is it the same argument over and over?Or do you guys like the drama of it? Because after all I will be the first to tell you make up sex is the best lol.
Second of all......He lied to you about who was on the phone and then ran from you like some little boy who was about to be swatted by his mother.Another lack of maturity.
Third of all...... What was he doing behind your back boworring money from a girl you didnt know?You would have never found out about this girl, had you not been there to intercept the call.Im not saying he is cheating on you, but why would he omitt something like that.especially if it was something as innocent than borrowing a few dollars?Remeber omission is still a lie.
You may not want to hear this .Because even young love is still the kind of love that will tear your heart out when the relationship ends.But I would advice you to really look into the relationship.Is he mature enough?and allthough you are young this could still happen... ask yourself , what if i get pregnat? Is he going to run from me when things get tough like he did when i intercepted that call!Cause trust me! If he is going to run from a confrontation, it looks like he would run for the hills and not look back if something as serious as a pregnacy comes up.He does not sound mature enough to be in a committed relationship.Remember girls are more mature than boys at your age.And that leaves for you to have a lot to loose if he decides he want to move on.Is he worth investing into emotionally hun?Believe me... I had my heart broken by one I thought was mature enough.I even married him.And when things got tough... He packed his bags and left.Now im here to pick up all the pieces of the wreckage.If one person could learn from mistake... It would make my heartbreak worth it! Good Luck in whatever you choose to do! If you need to talk to someone.Feel free to email me at stargazerlilly79@yahoo.com.
2006-11-05 07:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by stargazerslilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first line you wrote on here should be your first clue. If you and him are constantly breaking up, the relationship isn't healthy to begin with. Second, I am noone to say if he cheated on you or not or was about to as you think, but, if he had nothing to hide he would have mentioned owing a chick some money before you got into a fight. You shouldn't have had to discover it the way you did. And, if he was running from you that's another clue. He's trying to hide something in my opinion, but if that is NOT the case, you both have trust issues anyway and he should not be acting so shady with you. You need to seriously have a talk with HIM. That's the only way you'll figure things out. Good luck! ♥
2006-11-05 06:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by DiVenanzo™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is variety of bizarre that he deletes all of his messages and calls instantly... however quite, rather than that it would simply be how he discovered to paintings round his mother going via his stuff. Maybe ask him why he is so secretive along with his stuff, inform him you'll be able to recognize why he desires to have passwords and matters on the grounds that of his mother, however is there any rationale to maintain matters from you (?) Good good fortune! Edit: WHOA! You're 19, he is 26... sure he is dishonest on you. There's a significant change among a 19 12 months historic deleting messages and having the conduct you defined, and a 26 12 months historic. And actually, Daniel's correct-- you can be 19, however he is a grown guy. You're courting a loser nonetheless residing along with his mum and dad...and now you are within the combine residing along with his mum and dad. And there's not anything mistaken with anticipating him to help you...he SHOULD help you. What variety of unlawful substance are you on?
2016-09-01 07:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is one of the main things in a relationship. If you dont trust him there is no relationship. If you have doubts he is cheating he probably is. If a guy cheats he really doesnt want to be with you in the first place even if he thinks he does.
2006-11-05 06:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by LOVELY LADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he cheated,n he's still cheatin.Becuz if he wasnt y did he hide n try to run with da phone?N dont believe the girl cuz he told her to say dat r he woudnt mess around wit her any more,if u found out about her.....So just keep ur eyes open...
2006-11-05 07:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had he cheated, that girl would've told you. Of course he didn't cheat, he just owes her some money. You are a girl, you should know that girls don't lie to ex-gf's about that just because their man asks them to, if that was the case... learn to trust your bf a little...
2006-11-05 06:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were broke up he did not cheat. What is this 5 hour breakup? Poo!
2006-11-05 07:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by cirenek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋