ok, i had been in a relationship with a guy for two years..but i had to break up with him because i couldn't love him...he said to me its ok. we can just stay as friends. but now after five months that i have finally found a new boyfriend, my ex is changing his mind...he has once against asked me to go out on a date with him....i don't get it...he says thats its ok if i stay with my new boyfriend, but i must sometimes share those moments with him too...like romancing....i don't really get this...he is been forcing me to go out with him. but he does not want me as his girlfriend...what does this mean?
2006-11-05 06:42:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He basically wants the cake and to eat it too. DONT FALL FOR THIS. Sometimes guys feel its more of a challenge when a girl is with someone else. He just wants to have you when he wants to but he doesn't want you to be emotionally attached to him. He sounds like he wants to have any girl he wants at any time without the feeling of commitment.
2006-11-05 06:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by LOVELY LADY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break your ties with him. If you truly like your current boyfriend and have no interest in the ex, stop taking his calls etc and tell him you think it would be better if you didnt talk for a while.
"forcing you to go out" means you go? He cant force you to go. Tell him No and thats final and let him deal with it.
2006-11-05 14:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thought that in time you could love him and he can't stand the idea that you got over him but he hasn't gotten over you. If you don't love him, don't play his game or both of you will be hurt. Stay with your new boyfriend and if necessary stay away from this other guy.
2006-11-05 14:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is almost impossible to stay friends with an ex, so if i were you i would cut all ties and give your new man a chance.
anyway, it sounds as if he wants to control you. tell the guy to take a walk.
2006-11-05 14:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's keeping you on the string. This is manipulative behavior. If he really cared what you thought he would never say these things. and the fact that you thinkl you must give in to this behavior also gives me pause. tell him no, then get him out of your life and as soon as possible. he's looking out for himself, you're only the body to his fantasies!
2006-11-05 14:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by pitmanette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it means you are very weak as a person. If you don't want to go out with him then don't. What is YOUR problem?
2006-11-05 14:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is because he still has feelings for you but dont know how to show it to you and he is jealous of the other person you are dating
2006-11-05 14:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by casia h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all a person can't force you to do anything ... unless you want it done to you
2006-11-05 14:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by common sense 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to then dont if he is threating u then call the cops duh even if he says he will kill u if u do call the cops do it any way he cant get u if he is in prison
2006-11-05 14:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by irishchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to fck around
2006-11-05 14:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by naughty_babii11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋