and I am totally not allowed to go to any boyz house and if I say I am going to a friends house, my mom has to meet the parent, and the parent has to be home, so going to a friends house and sneak out of the house to be crushes house is out of the question, what should I do, b/c he can't come to my house. And plz don't say, 'just wait for 4 years.'
2006-11-05 06:30:22 · 9 answers · asked by MRS. EFRON ♥ zac 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This really seems horrible for you. How about asking your mom to go to the movies with friends and tell a boy to go also and sneak out to go to his house and then return to your house later, making sure that your parents don't find out about it.
2006-11-05 06:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Firefighting Hero 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hey P&P you are only TWELVE YEARS OLD!!!
Everything you say your mom expects from you is totally fair and reasonable for a 12yo.
I know that isn't what you want to hear, but YOU ASKED!
In 4 years you will be only 16 years old, & what you do in the meantime has a lot to do with how your mom will treat you when you reach that age, & ask her for extended dating priveleges.
I strongly recommend that you do everything your mom asks of you. Not only to the letter, but in spirit as well.
All your mom wants is to ensure that you are in situations where you are treated with respect, & are safe from harm. Unfortunately 12 years hasn't been enough time to teach you all of the pitfalls in life. You THINK you know them all, but just because you don't know or understand them all doesn't mean that they don't exist.
Which would you rather do? Would you rather listen to your mom, & risk maybe missing out on a couple of fun times, OR would you rather go your own way, do what you want, & risk either getting raped, pregnant, or both?
I know it seems like I am just taking your moms side here, but trust me, I am just trying to be your friend & help you have a safe & happy life. By trusting your mom that she is probably right, & not just excersizing her parental privileges to make you feel miserable, you will eventually earn her trust, & she will eventually loosten some of her grip, when (in her sensible judgement) you are ready. Sneaking to your Bf house is not going to earn her trust in you, so don't do it.
2006-11-05 14:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no clue. sounds like ur parents r over strict. how old r u? just so we get a betta idea of how ur parents r thinkin. i mean, imn not allowed to go to a guys house, but im 13 so wateva, u kno? if ur an age where u rly think u shud be let out of the house to go out, talk to your parents seriously about it, dont let anything stop you. Put the cards open on the table. Tell them about it, and in the end they might understand. good luck...!!!!!
2006-11-05 14:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So, you don't want to hear the truth, you want to have your ears tickled.
To be grounded for that length of time would indicate a serious lack of trust on your mother's part for you.
Earn her trust back, Suck it up and follow her discipline. You actually may learn something and live long enough to benefit from your experience.
2006-11-05 14:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to side with your parents, but you've obvioulsy lost their trust. Work on regaining that trust and they may lighten your sentence from 4 years.
2006-11-05 14:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha i like west's reply. hmm since you say 4 more years i take you're 14, you're really young focus on school not boys trust i know a girl who is your age all she thinks about is boys and her life is messed up right now.
2006-11-05 14:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like how your parents think!
2006-11-05 14:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
show your parents that u r totally trustworthy.
2006-11-05 14:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow how old are you???
2006-11-05 14:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Greek Chick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋