We dont have sex he says his sex drive is low we have a 3 month old and if I say so myself I look really good but he stays up and looks at nude internet pictures and swingers clubs he says he loves me and wants to be with me whats going on can anyone help me please I cant do it anymore Im so sad and it hurts me how can he love me guys please help
2006-11-05 06:29:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know what to do he avoids me completely when i ask him anything also i caught him talking to other women behind my back when i was pregnant and he never wanted sex then either
2006-11-07 08:19:04 · update #1
maybe he is interested in swinging. you should talk to him frankly. If he is interested, may be the best option is to let him try it. If you don't have any other major problem, this can even improve your sex life. especially if you can accompany him. If you can't do this, again you should talk to him frankly and tell him that you are worried about the current situation. this is definitely better than doing nothing.
2006-11-05 23:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I know exactly how you are feelin. My husband does the same thing. He would pay lot's of money to have a women on a camera do what he said, all while I was in the other room sleeping. Then when I caught onto that, he started to order porn on our cable while I was asleep. I caught onto that so he went to his mom's house and looked at stuff there. It had finally been a long time so I took the password off of our computer and what did he do? While I was laying there asleep he was right next to me on the computer looking at someones myspace profile playing with him recently. It has almost ended our marriage a few times. If he does it again I will leave. I'm sorry you are going through it. Some people think, oh big deal, guys do it. But to me it's almost like cheating because he is getting off fantasizing about another women. Just wanted to let you know you aren't the only one out there.
2006-11-05 06:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by megkenzee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel, my husband is also addicted to pron and has said the same thing, later I found out that he was going on the singles sites and talking to other woman and even met one. I really dont want to hurt you but, I would look closely for other signs too. I live with this daily and cry until I fall asleep, do alot of praying, and God will show us both what to do.
2006-11-05 06:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 19:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is obsessed with looking at porn on the computer give him what he wants literally. Find a local erotic photographer and go and do a nude and erotic photo shoot of yourself and put those picutres on your computer. Its a fantasy thing for him that you can turn into a reality.
2006-11-08 06:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by jungle j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be negative, you just had a child recently, i have friends that were at that point, they said " she put on weight during the pregnancy, i just don't feel like doing it) Your body changing drasticaly in a negative way does not really help. His "low" sex drive will pass.
2006-11-05 06:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As fatherly advice, this is really bad, and I know that you're not alone with this problem. I'm sorry you're having it. At the very least, I think you need to have a serious talk with him.
But you'll need to be very strong - strong enough to make him understand that he's destroying your life and that of your infant.
It might require separate sleeping arrangements, until he's able to get over this, if he's willing.
2006-11-05 06:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys just have a need to look at other women (sad but true). It doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
2006-11-05 06:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he``ll get over it just leave him be for the time being, he`s currently in fantisey land and there isn`t much that will pull him out excep tinkerbell, sprinkle some stardust in his eyes and turn off fantesey and turn on real life, have fun and enjoy its the real thing..
2006-11-05 06:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by robert r 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very confusing u should keep
him off the computer and see wot
happens u could try bringing
one of his fantasies to life
2006-11-05 06:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by ningamdo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋