How do I get over the ones that hurt me if I am now having dreams about my exs? I was in love with all 3, not at the same time, you get it. They all hurt me in different ways. One lied, one cheated, and one lied and cheated. I've had dreams about all, but I had a one that stuck, about the one who cheated. I dreamt that we were together and happy. It's like he never cheated. In real life, when he cheated he told his cousin who is friends with me and she said that the reason he didn't make a big deal about it was because he was never going to do it again. I was angry, and I bought it to his attention that I knew about it, but I didn't tell him who told me. He denied everything so I left him. I miss him, because I feel like he might have been true. Later I found out that the girl he was with is now his girlfriend. There's this guy, I think he likes me, but he's a year and 8months younger than me,should I try to talk to him or not? I kind of like him, but I have a thing against young ones.
2006-11-05 06:12:23 · 14 answers · asked by Ladybug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, a dream is just a dream. Forget about your ex-es. There are good reasons why you broke up with these people in the first place. You may miss them, but come back to reality and remember all the crappy stuff they did to get you to were you are now. Someone will come along who will be sweet and good to you and won't cheat. Just wait and see! If you like someone, why not talk to them and get to know them beyond their age? If you find out you don't like them, move on from there.
2006-11-05 06:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a loving story ends, so does its relationship, so now it is time that you stop moaning about it, move on and stop ruining your life. It will not come back.
Time will eventually heal your hurts but these are a reality in life and you should be prepared because these were not the first and surely not the last.
Start going out with a group of friends, join a youth club and make new friends. Stop bothering about getting another partner for the time being and enjoy yourself freely. when the right time comes, don't worry you will find yourself committed to somebody else and nothing will ever remind you of your present exs.
2006-11-05 14:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you really need to take some time and learn yourself. Learn what you really need in a man so this why you wont be a magnet for cheater and fabricated men because there are a lot good men out there. You are the key to a man. You are an orange men has to peel away layer to get to you and if your insides are not sweet then they will treat you like you feel about yourself. I hope you understand what I’m trying to tell you.
Women are in control you get what you exposed yourself as. You might not understand what I’m saying maybe because of your age. I notice you are verbalizing about some other man that likes you. It’s not if he like you it’s do you like him. That’s where women go wrong in relationships they think that if a guy like them then it’s a go. But women have the POWER to date anyone that they want because if you learn yourself then you will attract a good man because you’re good women. If you’re a B*&*$! Then you will meet bogs. Also try other cultures.
2006-11-05 14:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by SHAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dismiss someone just because they are younger than you. A year and 8 months is not really that much of a difference. My man is 7 years younger than me and we are perfect for each other.
2006-11-05 14:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by jadelily78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over your ex's in time. Just hang out with this new guy and if it turns out you do like him than go for it maybe someone younger will be good luck.
2006-11-05 14:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Maybe the youngie will solve your problem. Plus age shouldn't matter much, only if it is a huge age difference then yeah it matters.
Peace out!
2006-11-05 14:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by what_it_do? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would get the exs out of your mind first else you may go for this guy for the wrong reasons and hurt him like you have been hurt :) love sucks sometimes but when we get it right im sure its the best
2006-11-05 14:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by lisa w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-06 09:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age does not matter if u get a new
relationship u'll forget ur old one so go
for it make ur self and others happy
i say wots it hurt answear none
2006-11-05 14:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by ningamdo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does age really matter if you like him? Go for it what more have you got to lose?
2006-11-05 14:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by rebeandphantom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋