There is this really cute boy at my school. He's my age, he's cute, funny, outgoing and nice. He kept flirting with me, so I got a huge crush on him! Eventually, I had my friend ask him if he'd hang out with me, and he said yes. Having the low self esteem that I do, I had my other friend ask him the same question, only she asked him out for me. He said probably not. Now he thinks I'm a stalker. So, I told all my friends that he's a concieted jerk and I don't like him anymore. I have 2 questions:
1) Will word get to him so he won't think I'm a stalker, and
2)Will he ever like me?
(I have brunette curly hair, I'm 5'3, 116 pounds{Yeah, I need to loose some}, I'm nice, funny, kind, I love to play around, and I'm outgoing.)
Here are some pictures:{Please don't tell me I'm too young to put pictures on the internet!lol} http://gerardarthurway.myphotoalbum.com
2006-11-05 06:06:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow Kate, you really are CUTE! There is definitely no need for you to have any low self-esteem. You don't really need to lose a few (pounds) either.
I am afraid that the only thing that is guaranteed to work for you at this time is to stop communicating with him through emissaries.
Maybe you did creep him out a tiny bit when you sent the 2nd friend in to ask him if he liked you.
But you may have gone too far when you sent out the bulletin that you didn't like him anymore, & thought he was conceited.
That is contrary to your true feelings for him, so I don't know how he will ever decide that it's safe to show his feelings for you if he hears that you don't like him.
I don't think he's going to see you as a stalker, but he'll probably think of you as fickle.
From here on in try communicating with guys on your own. Obviously you have learned that sending messages through your friends isn't very reliable, & doesn't get good results.
Finally, go to him directly & talk to this guy. You are far too pretty for him to harbour any ill feelings about you over things that he heard from someone else.
2006-11-05 06:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said that he would hang out with you, why would you ask (or have someone else ask) again? You should talk to him yourself (yes, YOU)...He'll get to see the person you really are. Let him know that you were too shy to ask him to hang out, and that you didn't mean to come off wrong. If he gets to know the real you, maybe he will like you eventually.
2006-11-05 14:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really you just have to talk to him about it yourself. Thats what can happens when friends talk for you, trust me, ive seen that. Im 16 years old and kinda shy, when ever my friends would talk to a girl for me, theyd always say some sh*t like, hey will you give that kid head, or something i wouldnt say. So you have to talk for yourself or else your friends will say it differently than how you would of said it, then that guy will think of you differently than you really are.
2006-11-05 14:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sending your friends over to talk to him showed that you we're shy the first time but I think sending a friend over the 2nd time made him thinking that you we're just playing a game.
2006-11-05 14:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing with fire. Of course it will get back to him - gossip has a way of spreading like wild fire. Chances of him "liking" you after what you've said about him are close to the "nil" mark. Apologize for your lies and move on.
2006-11-05 14:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by junebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't get your picture to come up.
2006-11-05 14:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋