Im 29, never married, no kids, decent physical shape, I've been told attractive. I work, I like to have fun and do things, and I also like to stay in. I cook and bake, Im not a slob. I can hold my alcohol, and I dont do drugs... Why can't I find someone that isnt either a total bore, or a total ***?
2006-11-05 05:58:44 · 18 answers · asked by Lil Jello 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh adding the fact: Im outgoing, I do karaoke (sober and not bad), I work out at the gym... Dunno, think Im a good catch. Thank you everyone that replied so far.
2006-11-05 06:08:42 · update #1
Nothing! I peeked @ your 360, your picture & all, & I'd say NOTHING! I realize that I only know about you from your entry, but perhaps fate will take a turn here soon.....
2006-11-05 06:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. There is everything wrong with the people you are "hunting through". Change directions and possibly the change will help. Just relax and let it go. Not to go all "Dr. Phil" here, but you need to enjoy each day for what it brings. Go out and enjoy each day exactly as it comes and try not to make things happen. The right person for you will fall in your lap when you least expect it. I agree, you are a looker and possibly a "catch". If you were my friend I would try my best to help, but I can only offer advice. Do not give up! Someone needs you-they just do not know it yet! Keep your chin up and never let that sweet smile leave your beautiful face.
2006-11-06 14:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by SeanB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem like a decent persona nd all. Once again you gotta know what your loking for in a guy. You might want to see if the boring guys are really boring or if they just need to come out of thier shell. I say just relax a little. Once again as in your last question, you might not be looking in the right places. your still a catch and guya are looking for more serious relationshipalso at our ages my dear .
Im guessing the people around you must be in great relationships and your wondering why arent you in one. Relax you just need to take time, know that you are a great person get your inner self back to 100% and then when the right guy comes up you will know it.
Stop downing yourself and go ahve fun and get to know folks :)
2006-11-06 09:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you're not looking in the right places. Go where you have interests whether it's a club, restaurant, book store, sporting events, group activity. You need to find a place where you'll find someone who has the same interests as you do. Join a discussion group at the local college. Maybe you think they're boring because you don't have enough outside interests to keep them interested.
2006-11-05 14:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by junebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say don't look for love and let love find you.Well I don't know if that is nature's rule, but it hasn't worked for me. And I am 25 single guy. My case is I don't even attract the wrong ones,lol. you are a bit luckier.
But I would say may be you should attend church, I am positive that you won't find a husband at a bar. Statistics prove it. 30 something person happens while in school (college ) and another 30 something percent occurs in churches and organizations as such.
If love finds you, if that is how nature works then don't look for it.
But if not go to churches, not for a guy but for your relationship with God and I do believe He will take care of your needs.
2006-11-05 14:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart just hasn't met the right guy. Keep looking. It's a numbers game. The more guys you meet, the better the chance that your heart will fall for him. You also might be someone who takes a while before your heart becomes attracted to the other person. Find what your heart needs and then look for it.
2006-11-05 14:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not realize it but you are hiding from the people you most want to attract.
Into your day, you must include an hour at the library, an hour at the gym, and sign up for dance lessons. Good Luck
2006-11-05 14:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are like someone I know ..... I honestly believe in her case that its that she doesn't get out much .... I mean she goes to work comes back and relaxes !! It maybe your case too who ??
And another thing dont be thinkin theres anything wrong about you!!! It just takes others longer to find the right person!
I would date you ;)
WOW just see your photo .... you are goodlookin !
2006-11-05 14:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by stevooo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know your feeling. I am 33, think I am attractive, but I attract all the wrong ones.
2006-11-05 14:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by sherri e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more crap ones that come your way, the higher the chance of a proper one arriving. Keep waiting ...
2006-11-05 14:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by Bruno Tataglia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋