Haven't talked to the bf in 2.5 days. Last I knew, he was upset at me for something silly. Why am I always the one to say "I'm sorry" or to try and faciliatate communication? I do care, and I don't want to be distant, but I feel like if he wanted to talk to me, he'd call...he knows my numbers. And even if he really didn't want to talk, he could send an email, too. Am I being silly, stubborn, or both? I think we needed a break from our daily convo's, but I feel a little put off because he hasn't bothered to contact me.
2006-11-05 05:37:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG....I understand your situation completely. No, I don't think you're being silly or stubborn.
Doesn't it make you feel like you care more for him and he doesn't really care at all? Like he expects you to go begging for forgiveness. Like he doesn't care if you get back together or not.
Like he can't be bothered enough to pick up a phone or type an email. That he doesn't value the relationship enough to try and discuss the situation.
The only advise I could give it wait it out. If he cares, he will eventually contact you. If not, you will have your answer...that he just does not care enough.
Sorry. Maybe it's not good advise and I know it would be torture for you to just wait.
2006-11-05 05:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress yourself out about him... Go out and do something to please yourself, something to help take your mind off of the situation... You can't possibly be the one to call and appologize all the time. He has to make an effort sometimes. If your relationship is going to last in the long run you both have to put an equal amount of effort into it. Or else it's just going to get exhausting for you.
Besides like you said if he wants to talk he knows your number.
2006-11-05 13:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Angelica G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi "WannaB"................
Give your Beau a few days yet!
Do you know him for not contacting you in a few day's time? If it's unusual you can email him and ask "what's up!" OR, it's more interesting to see if HE contacts you first!
This is what I USED to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GO figure--------- IF he is thinking about you ENOUGH, and he CARES about you, believe me, he WILL call you eventually! Don't give up yet!
After all, it's better to let the guy CHASE you!
Just give him a few more days, then email him out of concern. Don't sound desperate, either! You WILL know!
Good Luck!
2006-11-05 13:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know just give him a call and don't apologize for anything you know just see what's up and say you haven't talked in a while and you miss him or whatever, i'm sure he feels the same way and if he is mad about something all you can do it just talk about it. So good luck with everything and just give it a try. : )
2006-11-05 13:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch "The Break up", with Jenn Aniston & Vince Vahnn and see how you feel afterwards, then decide whether or not you feel like you want a little space.
I hated the movie, but it might help ya make a decision!
2006-11-05 13:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called u, he obviously doesn't care as much as u do. 2.5 days is long not to talk to ur bf, n to not know what he's been up to. Just move on n dont waste ur time.
2006-11-05 13:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say what the silly something was that upset him. you know what you did or didn't do. if it was something he had a right to get annoyed about then it's up to you to say you're sorry. if it's something truly silly, then it's up to him to call and say he's sorry for getting angry over nothing. make up your mind and do what YOU feel is right.
2006-11-05 13:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can be very arrogant and he sounds like one. Just decide if he's woth the trouble and remember that you are complete without him.
2006-11-05 13:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he must be busy then.
don't stoop to always being the "I'm sorry", unless you are the only one who is always doing the screwing up.
2006-11-05 13:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call him .. see what\'s up with him
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2006-11-05 13:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋