I am sick of dealing with liars, cheaters, insensitive jerks. UGHHHH!!!!!
Can a guy sense me out i am the type of woman that will put her man first. I feel as if i always get walked all over in my relationships. What the heck is going on?? Do men prefer the Biznatches out there apposed to a good women??
2006-11-05 05:36:02 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope......no one prefers em.....its just that good gals too are too scarce to find these days......mail me/pm me.....u wont be disappointed....in case u dont....still,all my best wishes to u :-)
2006-11-05 05:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♥addy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't lie to you. We live in a really f***ed up society nowadays, where people have lost all respect for the opposite sex, men and women alike. Men and women are tending to develop a more hostile behavior when it comes to relationships and dating. It's all about deception and what you can get away with nowadays. And I have to admit, I'm just as disgusted as you are. Fortunately, there ARE people out there, like you and me, who still value honest relationships and won't settle for anything less, because we don't deserve less. Nobody does. The best we can do is just not allow ourselves to drop to the level of others who are more interested in sex and control, rather than true love. Hang in there. I promise you'll meet someone who doesn't lie, doesn't cheat, and isn't an insensitive jerk. You just need to be a little more patient. Good luck.
-Steve-
2006-11-05 05:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If all your friends are clowns, your life will be a circus!"
I'd start by looking for guys in different places and challenging yourself to be more discriminating in the guys you'll date. Get to know a guy for a while before you date him. Move slower in your relationships - it'll put a higher value on the affection you show. You don't need to be a "biznatch" (probably a bad idea, anyway), but that doesn't mean you can't politely confront a guy for being disrespectful.
2006-11-05 05:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by wrarx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck is going on? Your allowing it, stand your ground voice your opinion and let them know what will or will not be tollerated! There is a saying and Im sure this will get me alot of thumbs down "a man will do what a man will do" meaning simply "a man will go as far as you allow them to go" If you dont like what they are doing tell them, if they continue end the relationship let them know you mean business and dont forgive them. You forgive them once they will do it over and over again {been there done that not gonna happen no more}. I think thats why my husband and I work so great I tell him like it is.
2006-11-05 05:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know something I am exactly what you say you want and what most girls say they do yet when you treat a girl with class and dignity they tend to walk all over you it is hard to stay true to the belief that women should be treat with respect when they treat you like sh*t for doing the right thing. but I wish you all the best in your trip of life and I HOPE that you find a guy that has not been completely dominated by the ways of life and will treat you wright.
2006-11-05 06:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Since birth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya girlie... I have the problem of I meet a good guy and he's boring as hell, or a guy that turns out to be a major jerk. I treat my boyfriend (when I have one) like gold and expect the same respect in return, but cant seem to find the balance of a good guy that actually likes to have fun and isnt a mental case.
2006-11-05 05:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. Got walked all over lots of times. But, they are still out there. Took me forever to find mine. To find a good guy you're going to have to change something about what you're looking for. Open up your scope a little more. The good guys like to hide out a little more than the worthless ones.
2006-11-05 05:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by jadelily78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a liar, cheater, or jerk, i wont walk over you...and im hot, but youd have to deal with me being bi, so you might not like that, you would have to get over the steriotypes....but i know alot of guys(straight) that would date you, you must be young, just have fun and worry about getting in a serious relationship once the guys start to mature, and dont just date based on looks
2006-11-05 05:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are. I am single and I feel how you feel. I still have not gone out with a girl and I am a freshman in high school. I seem to be ignored by many people even though I am kind and "sensitve". I prefer women who are morally responsible and kind to their guys.
2006-11-05 05:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by Firefighting Hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are, you have got to take your time, not rush into anything. The next time, be friends for a while, so you can get to know the guy. One day, Mr. Right will come along. don;t be looking, and all of a sudden, their he will be.
2006-11-05 05:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt exactly the same way as you have before.
But TRUST ME... he will come when you LEAST expect it.
My boyfriend was right under my nose the entire time.
You'll never find love if you keep looking for it.
2006-11-05 05:38:57 · answer #11 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋