....i have 2 kids and their father is in jail,we hve been together for 5 years,i love him so much but he treated me like i wasnt nothing wneh he was out so now hes in their he callsand writes me and be saying that he need me in his life he say he loves me,but this is the problem i have been talkin to this other person and i really like him and he treats me real good what should i do?
2006-11-05 05:29:33 · 9 answers · asked by yolanda g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I got deployed I was lonely and called my x whom I broke up with cause she treated me bad. When I returned I realized I just needed a security blanket to get me through till I was in a familuar place again. Your his security blanket. He will be great till he gets back in his groove, then you'll be on the back burner again. Go for the other guy.
2006-11-05 05:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by zippo_lyp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't that you loved him so much, you were scared of him my dear. Now that he's locked up he needs you and feels that he has you because of the years you've been together and you allowed him to treat you that way. What I would do is sit down and think about what I would write back to him to let him know that it is over and that you decided to move on in your life without him. Explain to him how you felt over the years that you were together and how it hurted you in how he treated you. Let him know that you didn't want it to end this way but you feel that it's best for you and him. Let him know that you wouldn't deprive him of the children but let you know when he would come by to see them. Don't tell him about the other guy because it is not his business. I would take the new relationship very slowly and get to know the guy so you won't in up like the first. God bless you.
2006-11-05 05:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Years ago I was in a similer situation. Husband in and out of jail or alcohol treatment centers. When he was in he treated me like I was valuable and that he would never hurt me again. When he was out he treated me like I was garbage. Of course when he was in I'd send money and lots of letters of support. Then I found that he had many girlfriends and they were all doing the same thing. If there is someone who can care about you and treat you like you deserve, go for it.
2006-11-05 05:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by acebedo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By him being in jail, this may be your way out. You deserve some happiness also. You need to think long and hard about this. Weigh your odds, and think what is best for you and your children. I hope it all works out for you!
2006-11-05 05:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the jail bird.
2006-11-05 05:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. if he treated you bad .... you should move on .. but maybe he\'s a changed man .. jail will do that to a man ... you have a tough choice ... once he\'ll get out ... he\'ll have a tough life and he\'ll really need you
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2006-11-05 05:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your decision should be your strongest feeling
do what your heart tells you....
2006-11-05 05:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by walterknowsall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2006-11-05 05:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋