2006-11-05 04:47:31 · 25 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If so, did you get caught?
2006-11-05 04:48:33 · update #1
I did once - cos I thought my chap was cheating on me and it turns out he was!!!! didnt make me feel any better though - two wrongs dont make a right and I was very young. Would never cheat again but its a terrible feeling when you suspect it is happening to you. My advice - only go out with someone you can trust.
2006-11-05 08:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by D F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated. I'm one of those people that gives themselves 110% to relationships so can never understand how someone could cheat. If you find yourself attracted to someone else evaluate your current relationship because something is obviously wrong and deal with it! If it's over then fine, dump your partner and pursue the other person! There is no excuse for cheating!
As you can probably tell yes i have been cheated on!
We were engaged. Together 3 years. Planning the wedding and the move in to our own place when he announced it was over. No reason just "it wasn't working." I know that to some people you would see that as a reason but when you've been with someone for 3 years and are planning your future together (he asked me to marry him btw) "it wasn't working" isn't really a good enough answer!
3 months later i found out he was going out with another girl which hurt but we were over so i can accept that but... Then it turned out they had actually been together for 6 months! (do the math!) Not only that but shortly afterwards they announced their engagement, moved in together and as if to rub salt in the wound they actually married on our planned date at our chosen venue with most of the same bridesmaids! ug.
But things happen for a reason and I'm very very happy with my new man now!
2006-11-05 05:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Fay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes in a previous relationship I was cheated on.. Although he would deny to this day I just know.. from to many sources.. While I was in university I went home for the summer to be with my family in another province. He would cheat on me.. even his sister knew and her ex-boyfriend.. the whole time.. Whats sick is that his sister never told me and we had a good repore through that relationship.. During the summer he called me and told me that we should break up.. and he is seeing some one else..we broke up so many times on and off (I broke up with him first though, then got back together and all that crap).. When I found out.. I tried not to let it get me down.. lol the first thing I did was go to get my nails done ( Like off Legally Blond) I had fun partying that summer and being a single girl.. I worked out a lot and spent alot of time taking care of myself.. When I came back to town.. for the new school year he wanted me back.. but I said no.. I was having to much fun being single and had many other interests.. After he saw me again.. Oh ya he knew what he lost =P
2006-11-05 05:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by bulldogsr2cute 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been cheated on. Caught her after 2 weeks. It does not pay everyone ends up hurt.
2006-11-05 04:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated on anyone. I think it's awful, if you are so unhappy to need someone else, you should really just end the relationship. As far as being cheated on... not that I'm aware, but if I were.. that would be the end of that.
2006-11-05 05:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Define cheating.....
I've drunkenly kissed someone other than my partner but never done anything more than that. Also that was many, many years ago and I'm much more grown up and responsible now and wouldn't do it again no matter how much I'd had to drink.
No they never found out - it's so long ago it's not worth bringing up, it would only hurt their feelings and it meant nothing.
2006-11-05 07:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kerri 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been cheated on by my ex with a "friend" of mine. I'm not sure which hurt more ate the time: losing my bloke or losing a good friend. After that I could never cheat on anyone, I couldn't be that cruel.
2006-11-05 04:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been cheated on and it is one of the worst feelings.
i caught my (then) fiance mid-shag with a so called friend.
no idea where or what he is doing, as for my ex.. she now has a brood of 4 kids to multipe fathers..
i now thank them for my lucky escape, but at the time i thought my world had ended.
i now find it very hard to trust or allow partners to get too close
2006-11-05 04:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on but have never done it myself because I know how much it can hurt the other person.
2006-11-05 04:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have cheated ,,, not caughtbut the guilt was worse than being caught
2006-11-05 04:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋