Are they for real, and if they are how can I get an I don't care attitude. I don't get stood up, that was just an example, but I do have it where he doesn't call me back sometimes, I hate it though and want to stop freakin' out when it happens. I WANT AN I DON'T CARE ATTITUDE. Do those women just hide their true feelings very well.
2006-11-05 04:46:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
while sometimes i do care when a guy cancels or doesn't call back, the truth of the matter is, a lot of times i really don't. how do you get that "i don't give a crap attitude?" ......always have a plan B. easier said then done. but i always have a back-up plan like a movie i've been wanting to see or something else to do instead. sometimes the guy's behavior is inexcusable and i'm an unforgiving person. shame on you if you fool me once......shame on me if you fool me twice. so i give them the benifit of the doubt once....but strike 2 their out. remember also that the more you freak out....the more they get pleasure from it.....when you don't care .... they worry. food for thought. good luck and hope that helps.
2006-11-05 04:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, at an analogous time as I particularly think of that what he did became thoughtless, perhaps it would be a stable thought to learn why he could have carried out it. From what you wrote, it variety of feels that each and every time he's around you in public is whilst he gets antsy. what's the atmosphere like on the scientific institution the place you paintings? Is it a possibility that he's uncomfortable being in a courting with somebody who's meant to be his student? i think of he would have been put in an ungainly place no longer in basic terms via the certainty which you like him, yet that he likes you too and could be conflicted over it. apart from, if your telephone became broken how became he meant to touch you to tell you that he could no longer bypass? it could have been that he waited too long, however the facebook chat could have been the earliest risk for him to tell you. you have been a sprint greater mature particularly than insulting him and logging off, yet i will understand which you have been offended. i do no longer think of OCD has something to do with those products. He in basic terms appears like a popular dude. All women and men persons make blunders. you're precise that the ball's in his court, yet you look to truly like him. that's not that great of a deal; i'd provide him yet another risk.
2016-10-03 07:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by regula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do have those "I don't care" attitudes and some hide it well. I used to be the type to worry. But once time went by I started to think to myself that I didn't need that crap. If they didn't call, I wasn't going to pick up the phone, and I didn't stress it. Once I started not to care I realized I started to get alot of attention from guys.
Like when they would say they were going to call, I wasn't waiting by the phone. I was out with the girls, doing my own thing. "Life is too short to wait by the phone for some guy to call." I mean, it would be worth it if you knew he was the one, but you don't.
2006-11-05 04:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Angelica G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we're extremely good at it. All you have to do is remind yourself that you don't need this man to stay fulfilled. Just go and do your own thing, and he can talk to you later — IF you decide to pick up the phone. (smirk)
2006-11-05 05:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called jaded. You grow into it and really it's not very pretty.
Just be happy w/who you are and run w/it.
2006-11-05 04:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they dont call back they are not interested,so ignore them
2006-11-05 04:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Pauline 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋