I need people's opinion
wot should I do this girl who's bin my friend for a long time, she is 12 and im 14, she flirts with me all the time she has a bf she talks about him a bit, says she might break up with him but wont let me say one bad thing about him, when I was on camp with explores (scouts) my friend Jodie said she likes me and she was all over me all camp, her 20 year old bro said I should watch it I heard her parents are afraid because im 2 years older. She asked me to kiss her but i did'nt because of her parents, brother and bf i don't know wot to do someones opinion please.
2006-11-05 04:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by ningamdo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ruin the friendship you have with her. Wait it out or talk to her parents about it first. Don't do anything to ruin the friendship is top priority. Age has nothing to do with it, except where her parents are concerned.
Good Luck!
2006-11-05 04:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she's just using you for attention. I've known/heard about enough girls over the years who SAY they MIGHT break up with their current bf, but it's usually just a ruse. Don't forget - "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush." She's more likely to stick with her current relationship than explore a new one.
2006-11-05 04:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by wrarx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u r to old for her. i know u probably are going to hear that 50 times but u r. u r much more mature than she is at this point and she probably just has a school girl crush on u, meaning that she likes u now but will forget u later. but, if u like this girl, i mean really like her, then talk to her. ask her about her feelings, her boyfriend, and figure out a relationship. also, if u plan on asking her out, talk to her parents. never do anything behind her parents backs cause they will find out and then u are screwed. as for her brother, he is just being protective like all older siblings are. he just wants whats best for his sister. is u like her go for it but remember, she is really young and her emotions are not set so dont depend on this girl. good luck!
2006-11-05 04:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take a deep breath and think long and hard are you ready to be the guy with the girlfriend who already have a boyfriend she's a cheater and if you go out with her she probably will cheat on you too
2006-11-05 04:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now it sounds like she is playing with you. You are her toy and she's not even serious about her boyfriend, so step back and observe, actions speak louder than words. Don't rush into anything you'll regret and think twice before you speak once. Good Luck!
2006-11-05 04:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not listen to the 20 year old brother but kiss her if you want to kiss her. Nothing wrong with that if she agrees on it.
2006-11-05 04:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you like her??
dont mess up with her boyfriend...
if she really likes you then he should have dumped her bf....
if soon you'll get the chance to court her then show his parent and brother that u are a trustworhty person !
age doesn't matter
2006-11-05 04:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by LaDy in Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her this! Tell her to either stop it, or talk to her parents. She's putting you in this position.
Also, do you really like her, or not? It should be up to you. If you ask me, she's acting like sort of an idiot.
2006-11-05 04:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to kiss her then do it. Do as you like. The ball is in your court.
2006-11-05 04:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by wishbasnet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get involve with this girl. It is not worth the trouble.
2006-11-05 04:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋