I love this girl so much.. the porblem is she says that she don't deserve me.She tells me tht i'm too cool and very high for her.she says that she is a bad person and had done bad things in past and tht she dn't derserve a nice person like me .But i love this girl so much i don't want to loose her.I said to her that i will forgive any mistakes that she have done in her past and tht i'm ready to accept her,but she is not convinced
How can i convince her to love me ???????
2006-11-05 04:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by Ander 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, first of all, u need to be positive u are willing to take the consequences of dating this girl. if she says she has a past, u might wanna know what that means before ur relationship gets serious. if u r sure, then tell her that if anything, u dont deserve her. it sounds like u really care about her, and, being a girl, i know that girls want to feel special. tell her she is the only one for u, u love, and that if anything, u dont deserve her, not the other way around. but, remember, u cant force someone to fall in love with you. dont push her. she may really be in love with u but is just not ready to be with u. its not that she doesnt care, its that she isnt ready yet. if this is the case, give her time and dont push her cause nothing turns a girl off more than when her bf pushes her into something. good luck!
2006-11-05 04:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ...sounds like victim of child(sexual) abuse or victim of adult(physical)abuse or both. .definitely ..do u realize what?..kind of patience will be required from u convincing her ..she isnt bad..plz if u love her go to some family counseling in your local area ..tell them your dating and well she has issues ..say the truth ..she feels highly insecure and she thinks or feels she is bad..United Way ...even free..I use to feel this way..I have a friend who well ...Cared enough and was extremely calm/patient/and loving to talk me through the 100's of awful mishaps(abuse).. and stories in my life..I could never thank them enough..make sure your ready it takes an extra special person to take on this kind of selfless act ..and take her to church even if it is (wed nite) when noone goes so u dont feel awkward church(where hands clapping) ..does wonders for building self esteem and tell her you Love her frequently..God Bless You...and Good Luck..!!!
2006-11-05 12:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL LOL LOL ROFLMAO.....look very closely at the computer.....SHE ISN'T INTO YOU!!!!!!!!! The "doesn't deserve me" is the newer equivalent to "it's not you, it's me"....lol she's just being nice and is trying to leave you with a little self-esteem. She doesn't like you. Sorry
2006-11-05 12:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Dreamwolf.
2006-11-05 12:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by miss m. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I have experienced that whenever somebody tells you they are bad...they are bad...and they end up being bad to you too....so be careful...she might have her own agenda.....or maybe she just likes the attention you give her when she is acting up.
2006-11-05 12:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...tipical blowing off...dont get ofended.my opinion is that she is trying to leave you but not to hurt you fealings.just let her go.oh and you cant make someone love you.
2006-11-05 13:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Yady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't, she might be blowing you off in a nice way. but you cant make someone love you.
2006-11-05 12:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by dreamwolf22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when some one says that they don't desreve you they are right. Remember that.
2006-11-05 12:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's the ax murder
2006-11-05 12:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋