He was in prison for 4 1/2 yrs and in the 4 yrs he has been out he has spend all together 1 1./2 yrs more. He promises he is gonna change every time, but doesn't. So should I beleive him now tht he does should diffrent or do u think it is all a front and he will be the same person he always has been .We never spend time together the only thing we have in common is sex.It is great but not all their is to life. so what shuld i do ?
2006-11-05 04:29:24 · 11 answers · asked by southernchick340 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-05 05:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,be honest with yourself,is this the right guy for you?The sex might be great but then again so is your finger if you understand what I mean,Actions speak louder than words,he will always be the same person we can only change within ourselves and this takes time,if he went thruogh 4 1/2 years and survived(small time) did he learn anything?He's got a long,tough road to get back into mainstream life but if he's willing to show you hes making change and progress than those actions are an insight into what you should do.If not your just spinning your wheels with him
2006-11-05 04:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the future you imagined (when a little girl) for yourself and your children? What is a convict going to teach his young?How to make a career out of prison? Listen to your doubts. What are they tellling you? He isn't going to change...face it. Sorry, but you asked.
My neice married a convict. Her life was always trouble. He recently committed suicide...she had given him an ultimatium to change. He left her and his children behind. Tragic.
2006-11-05 06:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you really really love him. but he would defently changed by now i mean 4 years and a half many things have changed. if you like anyone else i would go with someone else because if anyone goes to jail once they have a 60% chance or more for going back to prison
2006-11-05 04:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by araleryani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you answered your own question, the only thing that you have in common is sex, and you want more. Get rid of him. You already said that he says he's going to change but never does, well guess what, he never will.
2006-11-05 04:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably has a boyfriend of his own after being in prison to be sure check out the way he walks....a little bow legged huh? HAA HAA HA HA HA
2006-11-05 04:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by rectal itch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you want more from life? A home, children, an honest man? You won't get it from this guy. Don't waste any more time with this guy.
2006-11-05 04:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him and actually accomplish somegthing in your life. Live for you and someone who is there and good to you.
2006-11-05 04:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser and always will be. Dump his a s s and learn to masturbate.
2006-11-05 04:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him stay. you will find the answer in your heart
2006-11-05 04:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by mystery man 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him.
2006-11-05 04:32:11 · answer #11 · answered by miss m. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋